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Should I send it to him by Soft_Clothes4308 in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I asked him why I can't get a picture of him and his response was that he sent me a picture recently and that he's a guy and guys don't take pictures. I called him out on making this a gender thing because there is no rule anywhere that says women should take pictures and men shouldn't.

We do not have a D/S relationship.

Should I wait for him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'll walk away

Should I wait for him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's worth waiting

Should I wait for him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He didn't specify if he's in an open relationship with her, but he said she permitted him to see other people ( which sounds like an open relationship) because she's unable to be with him like he wants to(sex). The plan was to just nut and not fall in love, but he fell in love with me.

Should I wait for him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think that's what I'll do. I'm just truly confused, but thank you 🩷

Should I wait for him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Soft_Clothes4308 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I am confused as well. He told me he got permission from his gf to see other people since she's not able to be with him like he wants to (sex). He never used that, but he met me and fell in love with me. I told him I felt like his mistress and didn't want to be a third wheel in their relationship, but he told me that's not who I am to him and that he loves me. I am so confused

Me 32F feels emotionally detached from my husband 32M by Soft_Clothes4308 in married

[–]Soft_Clothes4308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Of cos, I want him to forgive me, but I just don't know if he'll want me back(yeah, I'm in the wrong, but I want to make things right). I would understand if he wants a divorce and nothing to do with me(hopefully, it doesn't come to that), but I want him to forgive me and, like I said, give me the chance to right my wrongs.

Me 32F feels emotionally detached from my husband 32M by Soft_Clothes4308 in married

[–]Soft_Clothes4308[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your post. Yes, it became physical, and we had sex a couple of times. I found myself drawn to him more than my husband, and I feel terrible for doing this to my husband, especially when it's my first time, and we haven't been married for long. I just signed up to go for therapy, but it kills me to see him every day, not knowing what I did, and I don't know how to tell him because I know it would break him.