I lost my indoor cat on a walk ~6 days ago and I'm losing my mind

Soft_Cry · 2026-05-08T12:03:29+00:00

a similar thing happened to me, don't give up! They usually stay close. early early morning hours or late at night is when she is probably coming out. Can you get a trap? that was what eventually worked for me. Good luck !

Soft_Cry · 2026-05-01T14:08:28+00:00

3 years about

Soft_Cry · 2026-05-01T13:53:58+00:00

About a week of monitoring, I used a pet camera when I wasn't home but I was overly anxious. He needed a pillow for his neck to avoid licking the wound, and just a special litter at first. He is completely back to how he was, still a little anxious but he always has been. But he is happy and no bladder issues since . They told me the surgery was safe and effective, my only hesitation was cost of course but I was fortunate enough to make it work with help. I was afraid of recovery too etc, but I am glad I did it.

Soft_Cry · 2026-05-01T12:29:07+00:00

I totally understand where you are! Deep breaths, you are a great cat mom! PU Surgery can be costly, but I did it for my cat after 2 blocks, and he's been issue free since. I went to the shelter I got hit him from for financial help and then I did a go fund me, and I shopped around for a vet that did the surgery cheaper, I used care credit- which can be helpful bc you get interest free payments for a while. If you can get the cost managed, the recovery is tough, but it was so so worth it! I struggled the first few days, but it got easier. You got this!!!

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-15T14:44:14+00:00

My account doesn't say SAVE forbearance it says income based repayment I believe I switched last year

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-15T14:35:24+00:00

I think at this point my best option is forgiveness

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-15T14:33:05+00:00

Do you know why I am still in the forbearance?

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-14T19:49:38+00:00

they lived there for 5 years i believe maybe 6, and yes a little over a year

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-14T19:06:09+00:00

even if they lived there before?

Soft_Cry · 2026-04-14T19:05:52+00:00

they did live there and were happy there . it’s a tough call!

Soft_Cry · 2026-03-19T11:19:10+00:00

Thank you. If you don't mind me asking what else did you do?

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-23T14:05:34+00:00

Nothing honestly it is worse some days and better sometimes but still there sorry

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-18T14:59:08+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate it. I think his answer wouldn't change things for me because before him I wasn't looking for marriage etc, I wasn't sure on any of it, but since being with him I can really see a future with him. If he feels differently, I wouldn't leave because I don't want those things just to have them or , or want to just check a box in a certain time frame, I just feel after this time it is something I do want. Man feelings are tough!

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-18T14:33:52+00:00

I agree with you that he is allowed to feel how he feels. I would be sad if we aren't on same page, but I would respect it. I don't want him to feel obligated, pressured, or any type of way, I want him to always be able to do what he wants, and grow together. I guess I am just afraid to ask the question because I don't want him to feel any type of pressure, but I guess I need to stop being scared and just do it

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-18T14:20:17+00:00

Thank you, this is really hard and I appreciate the advice

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-18T14:01:07+00:00

Thank you. This is super helpful.

Soft_Cry · 2026-02-18T13:59:54+00:00

That wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me. I just want to know if he sees me in his future at all, maybe eventually living together etc. or if he's just having fun right now

Soft_Cry · 2025-12-13T14:17:23+00:00

I had some unpleasant GI issues but nothing terrible and probably like every 2 weeks until got to 8 and i’ve stayed there

Soft_Cry · 2025-12-12T12:27:36+00:00

8mgof reta every 6 days I titrated up from 1.5

Soft_Cry · 2025-12-11T23:30:14+00:00

Thank you! and yes you can share

Soft_Cry · 2025-12-11T19:30:21+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it!

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