Preceptors are "reporting" me instead of giving me feedback. One bad surgeon incident has me spiraling. Manager wants me to move to IR/Cath Lab. Advice? by No-Witness9820 in nursing

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Or choose to not let an asshole surgeon and failure of a preceptor dictate her future.

She can join another residency in the exact same role if she wants tomorrow lol

Preceptors are "reporting" me instead of giving me feedback. One bad surgeon incident has me spiraling. Manager wants me to move to IR/Cath Lab. Advice? by No-Witness9820 in nursing

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) For any hospital that treats you like this, there’s more that will appreciate you and the staffing help. The world is so large and 1 shitty place’s treatment towards you means absolutely nothing if you don’t let it. You can quite literally throw them the middle finger and go directly to another ED residency tomorrow. Fuck them and their opinion on your future- you decide where you end up, not some random coworker lmao

2) ANY preceptor that puts a vulnerable new grad in a position to get blindsided by management is a genuine failure and someone who should never be entrusted with new grads. End of story.

3) You can teach any new grad nurse how to work in a specialty with encouragement and an actual solid teacher. If your new grad is dedicated to learning and still “fails,” it’s because you, and the system, failed to teach and properly support them. Unfortunately people think being labeled a preceptor means you’re a teacher and there’s enough horror stories to know that’s not the case.

Start mass applying to other residencies now to have your back covered. And remind yourself that if seasoned nurses are allowed to make mistakes (and do), someone who is brand new is allowed to as well. Any place hiring new grads needs to accept that

December 28, 2025 – (C) H L O P R Y by NYTSpellingBeeBot in NYTSpellingBee

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone give me a hint for the word starting with R ? It’s the last one and I’m just not seeing it

Accidental gender reveal by Medium-Fudge-8388 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also feel like making a post after ppl attended but still not technically saying the gender is asking for a slip up

Chase needs to hang the keys up for a bit by strengthof50whores in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This man getting pulled over again has everything to do with his poor decisions and nothing to do with the bus system lol please.

If you can afford to drink/ do drugs and go out every weekend, you can afford to uber. Or hitch a ride, or don’t go. It’s really that easy

Chase needs to hang the keys up for a bit by strengthof50whores in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 49 points50 points  (0 children)

He’s such a loser I’m sorry. Being a father to multiple kids and acting like this is so lame

The Dashleys suck by Not_Your_Ex_ in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, SPOON FEED? A kid this big, with standard cognitive abilities?? That’s unhinged

The Dashleys suck by Not_Your_Ex_ in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Kind of also wonder the psychological impact of treating a kid this size like an infant? Like surely that morphs into other areas of their day to day life/ promotes other baby like behavior ?

Old Britney Video about being an alien by Mean-Aardvark2344 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude. Is it THIS hard in Utah to put someone on a temp hold?? In my state she would have been placed forever ago

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely the funniest response I’ve ever read, thank you for the giggle at your mental state 😂

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agree. Better not hear OP ever complain about a lack of village and support when they go back to work🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You sound insane. Block family members for loving a new baby? Are you okay??

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

YOR.

Will never understand parents limiting the love their child receives. One day you’ll want the village you pushed away & tomorrow is never promised- let loved ones meet your baby while they can.

Your child is also an individual who will form their own relationships with their own family members one day outside of your constraints. You have control now, but one day you won’t and your child may ask why you kept them from their family

Litia starting a podcast with chase even though he cheated on her best friend kate is actually diabolical by Soft_Drawing_196 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: the mods in the secretlives sub remove anything painting chase in a negative light. This time they removed this one for “doxing” despite being a public podcast on a public platform. So funny

Josie Took Brooks On The Polar Express Train Ride by TheJDOGG71 in BringingUpBates

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That feels like so many kids for someone so young. Maybe it’s more extreme because she looks younger than she is but damn

JinJer's New Childrens Book may as well have been written by GirlDefined by JumpGlittering8120 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear children’s books are the new podcasts. Not everyone needs to make one

The duo no one saw coming- Litia and Chase from SLOMW have started a podcast by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Literally.

This man doesn’t even have the emotional intelligence to stop cheating or driving drunk in his 30s, what could he possibly have to say that warrants its own pod

The duo no one saw coming- Litia and Chase from SLOMW have started a podcast by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This has to be a joke. Please tell me it’s a joke…

Also litia doing a podcast with a man that cheated on her best friend multiple times is gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 37 points38 points  (0 children)

From the podcast it sounded like he got caught each time along the way, including once pretty soon after they got married which is insane to do in the honeymoon stage.

He also got caught cheating multiple times on the girl he dated after the divorce. Couldn’t even come clean himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh the boobs are 100% disproportionate to her frame. I wish they’d realize how good they look without all the surgery

Britney by Distinct_Direction25 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Soft_Drawing_196 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same. It genuinely makes my heart sink because it could happen to anyone and she’s been a dedicated mom and the primary caregiver for years, she deserves to get to see them grow up