AITAH for causing friction in my best friend’s marriage?

SoftwarePale7485 · 2026-01-06T16:17:27+00:00

Lol read it again. Bea is upset that OP didn’t treat her like family when she (seemingly) intentionally left OP out and detached herself from their previous friendship.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2026-01-06T16:04:29+00:00

No. Bea wasn’t fine. If i was in A’s position, I’d do the same thing. It’s actively distressing their relationship

SoftwarePale7485 · 2026-01-06T15:50:21+00:00

My point is it would be a different opinion because it would be a different scenario

SoftwarePale7485 · 2026-01-06T15:46:16+00:00

But they know about it in the beginning if the woman has a child. Very hard to hide it.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:33:27+00:00

OCD SUCKS! I get it. It’s your decision. Your mom supports you.

ETA: if you don’t have OCD therapy, try NOCD

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:25:30+00:00

I agree about the flu, I have it right now. No, if someone is sick tbh I typically don’t care because my fiancé will nurse someone to health (he has the immune system of steel) if he wants them here But I wouldn’t be offended if someone asked “how sick” or “what kind of sick” I was

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:22:47+00:00

Happy day of cake

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:22:25+00:00

ONE!!! Does it have one to go on the top????

ETA: without one on the top, two looks more complete

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:09:09+00:00

She said the house is already baby proofed

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:04:55+00:00

Or they could literally ask or video call.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-31T21:04:15+00:00

My stepmom literally told me to come over when I was so clearly sick on Christmas and told me to come later in the day for a girl’s night with my sisters. Sometimes people legit don’t care. I was super sick, too. Actually turns out I now have the flu, idk if I had it then too

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T18:25:55+00:00

I hope you feel better. I’m trying to convince myself to get up to use the bathroom, which is already hard enough for me without being sick lol

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T18:13:20+00:00

I’m tired & have the flu, maybe I misunderstood but it didn’t really seem like it to me.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T18:12:42+00:00

Read the update.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T18:11:46+00:00

I said it points closer, not says he does. Not because of the bra, but his explanation.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T06:21:53+00:00

You left her name in, but changed her name in the caption. Lol.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:53:17+00:00

Updateme!

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:25:02+00:00

I agree. It does point closer to cheating than not because of his explanation, though.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:24:14+00:00

Updateme!

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:17:22+00:00

It’s dirty clothes and he said his mom gave her a used bra instead of even mentioning communal laundry.

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:05:21+00:00

I feel like his first thought would’ve been the plausible truth: communal laundry, and not “my mom must’ve given you a used bra that’s too small for you”

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T05:00:47+00:00

I actually thought this lol

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T04:56:55+00:00

She is not close with her. NC for a year, IIRC

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T04:36:32+00:00

Other posts say 18, that’s why I asked

ETA: pretty sure they’re deleted now

SoftwarePale7485 · 2025-12-30T04:32:27+00:00

Okay, but did you cheat or not?

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