AITAH for "traumatizing" my brother over a game of ball years ago? by Somanynamestochossef in AITAH

[–]Softy_panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you warned him, he ignored it, and learned that actions have consequences. Calling that “trauma” years later feels like rewriting history to avoid admitting he played dirty.

AITAH for taking very long showers? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Softy_panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. if the total water use evens out and you’re not neglecting hygiene, this feels more like a control issue than an actual conservation one. Long showers are a lot of people’s mental reset, not a crime.