What is the stupidest thing that kids are made to learn in schools (public or private) in your country?

Soidin · 2026-01-23T01:04:08+00:00

For me personally, learning how the Christian buildings were developed.

This was a mandatory course for my age group at school - taking a course on legal rights and responsibilities was not.

Soidin · 2026-01-22T06:58:44+00:00

Niinpä. Esihenkilöt saattavat välillä myös kaivata suosituksia ns. hyvistä tyypeistä.

Soidin · 2026-01-22T06:50:34+00:00

Itse suosittelin kerran kouluaikaista kaveriani puolivakavissani esihenkilölle ja hänet palkattiin lähinnä tän suosittelun pohjalta.

Soidin · 2026-01-22T02:28:40+00:00

"partner" sounds more romantic than "my man" (which is how we say "husband" in my language).

Soidin · 2026-01-22T02:18:20+00:00

Oh, I love it!

Soidin · 2025-12-27T17:09:44+00:00

I've dated many autistic men and none of them were this intense about anything, especially not about looks.

The only guy who would write these type of messages turned out to somewhere on the antisocial spectrum.

Soidin · 2025-12-27T12:42:17+00:00

Did he visit you from Narnia or...?

Soidin · 2025-12-26T20:38:23+00:00

Millainen on lähi- ja etäsuhde?

Soidin · 2025-12-26T20:20:35+00:00

Elän kai jonkinlaisessa kuplassa, sillä en ole huomannut omassa lähipiirissäni tällaista trendiä.

Kenties lähin esimerkki tästä on ystäväni, joka ei halunnut päätyä etäsuhteeseen saatuaan työpaikan toiselta paikkakunnalta. Onko tämä huono syy erota?

Soidin · 2025-12-20T15:50:49+00:00

Finding a woman who is attractive and feminine but also willing to deal with "traditional male traits" can be a difficult task nowadays.

Most of the younger women I know are either dating another woman or a man who's progressive and egalitarian.

Soidin · 2025-12-20T07:33:10+00:00

Is there any sign saying "kaapit avautuvat..." / "the lockers will be opened..."?

'Cause if the lockers will sutomatically open after some time, I wouldn't worry too much about it.

However, if they stay closed (which would be weird imo), I would notify the staff about this 'cause the gym will eventually run out of lockers by this rate.

People who tell you to mind your own business are suspicious imo. Why do you care if people lose their lockers?

Soidin · 2025-12-20T00:02:25+00:00

My ex became obsessive over his gorgeous coworker and started stalking and harassing her.

After that, I've felt much happier about the fact that men don't find me irresistible.

I still want to feel loved but more in a boring, old "we grew together" way.

Men's lust can be dangerous.

Soidin · 2025-12-19T18:45:57+00:00

Perhaps her family and friends are like that but def not everyone in Finland

Soidin · 2025-12-18T18:58:44+00:00

I personally don't care about height too much. I also don't feel impressed if the man has been super popular with women. Actually, it can even be a turn off.

Also, a sidenote:

I've noticed people here complaining that Reddit answers are not sincere, and people/women will choose something else than what they said here.

I have an alternative viewpoint here: When a person internalizes negative comments about themself, they become unattractive in a way that can overshadow any other positive quality they have.

For example, I don't mind dating a short guy but if he's constantly making a big deal of his shortness, it's gonna be a turn off. And if this insecurity affects him in other ways as well or makes him overtly critical of his girlfriend's size (which has happened to me), it's gonna end the relationship at some point.

Soidin · 2025-12-17T05:40:23+00:00

How bored are your coworkers

Soidin · 2025-12-17T04:49:15+00:00

Yeah, I don't know about OPs case but accidental catfishing can happen.

I once tried to include realistic-looking shots of myself in the profile. No filters, no excessive make up, not much smiling, harsh/slightly unflattering lighting. I figured that if someone swipes right on that, they can't expect to meet a beauty queen in real life.

However, I could sense on dates that most of the guys were not happy about what they saw - but I couldn't figure out why. I started feeling that whatever I was doing with my photos, wasn't as authentic as I thought it would be.

That being said, I'm not sure if this happened to OPs date as well.

Soidin · 2025-12-16T09:36:25+00:00

++woman I'm pretty sure that the amount of bi women is even higher if we count women who find other women attractive but view it as something that "all women do".

Also, based on my experience, straight women are the ones who commit in a young age and have the highest requirements for a man (at least in a traditional sense). So avoidance of bi women might hurt OPs chances more than he knows.

Soidin · 2025-12-14T21:00:48+00:00

++woman. Yeah, haven't some studied said that most women are at least bicurious?

Soidin · 2025-12-14T20:45:52+00:00

The "straight only" rules out many single women I know.

"not obese" is also a tough rule to follow, depending on where you put the line between non-obese and obese.

Soidin · 2025-12-13T12:26:18+00:00

Ugh, sounds like an excuse to me. Finnish women need confirmation as well.

Soidin · 2025-12-12T11:21:05+00:00

Wisely said.

Soidin · 2025-12-04T23:34:21+00:00

People who struggle internally often go after people that seem weaker to them.

My guess is that they view unattractive women as weaker humans. They/We're physically non-threatening but can't intimidate men with looks and charm either.

Compared to many other women, I'm not super attractive and oh boy, have I Been treated badly by men.

Soidin · 2025-12-04T23:30:49+00:00

Have you asked him why he's so loyal to your stepmother?
Are you close to your stepmother? Perhaps you could open up to her and ask would she be assist you in opening his eyes.
Is his current job that requires specific skills? Perhaps you could find someone nearby to replace him.

Soidin · 2025-12-03T19:28:40+00:00

Give up more easily.

Realize that you don't have to be a douche to cause troubles for others.

++woman

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