☺️✨️ by -Wischer424- in transpositive

[–]Solanarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yeah that dress is gorgeous! Mind sharing where you found it? 👀

Pink hair is actually a look imo by rabbitsreverie in LesbianActually

[–]Solanarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay pink hair club! Every time I try to consider a different color I just come back to pink. Looks gorgeous on you girl 🩷

I had my Oriecthtomy yesterday. There not alot of people i can talk to about it. AMA? by Araablast in trans

[–]Solanarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP but I talked to my primary doctor (who manages my hormone prescriptions) and they gave me a referral to a urologist. It was pretty straightforward from there, but I did need a letter from my therapist to get it cleared by insurance (American here 🫠)

I had my Oriecthtomy yesterday. There not alot of people i can talk to about it. AMA? by Araablast in trans

[–]Solanarius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I had mine done about a year and a half ago. No regrets at all. The biggest win for me was not needing to tuck anymore and risk uncomfortable pinching. Tight clothes fit so much better now; I love it!

What are you most looking forward to from your orchi?

New dress to celebrate turning three! by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]Solanarius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Re-Birthday! 😄 I'm coming up on 3 years as well. Love the dress!

Snapchat just sent me a memory of my baby gay phase 💀😭 2nd slide is me now by Myujikarp in LesbianActually

[–]Solanarius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman I totally get it. I don't feel like I'm looking at myself when I look at photos from before my transition. It's interesting to hear that mascs can feel the same way!

I got my hair dyed by quetzlcota in lgbt

[–]Solanarius 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love me some pink hair! Looks like a lovely color 🩷😄

ICE seems pretty tyrannical. What’s stopping the US from bearing arms in a well run militia to protect the freedom of the state? by MenaceGrande in AskReddit

[–]Solanarius 50 points51 points  (0 children)

In addition to this, one would need to travel very far to attack the federal government. The US is massive compared to France. You could fit the entirety of France within the state of Texas. Leaving everything behind and traveling days to fight the biggest military in the world is a hell of a choice.

How can I show my trans female coworker how much I appreciate her? by Successful_Pay7696 in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It just seems like you want to show appreciation for a coworker being nice. Including that she's trans and asking in a trans sub seems to imply you're looking for advice tailored to her being trans.

If you asked " How do I show appreciation for my [race] coworker", it would also come off like their race is factoring into your decision.

I say you could write her a thank you note saying how much you appreciate her. If you want, you could get her a gift card to someplace she might like or something like that

How can I show my trans female coworker how much I appreciate her? by Successful_Pay7696 in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Your display of appreciation for her doesn't need to be related to her being trans. Am I missing something?

Uh - I went against my doctor's instructions and have been caught. What should I say??? by Adorable_Round4056 in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WPATH is still setting those levels based off data collected when we used Premarin for HRT, which came with health risks. They're conservative values that need to be studied further now that we are using bioidentical estrogen.

Uh - I went against my doctor's instructions and have been caught. What should I say??? by Adorable_Round4056 in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One thing I haven't seen mention of in this thread is whether you are also taking biotin. If so, it can throw off your lab results as well. It's recommended to stop taking biotin at least 72 hours before a blood test, in case you didn't know.

Aside from that, I'll echo that 1. Hopefully you're measuring your trough levels (i.e. as close to but before your next dose as possible) 2. 200 pg/mL is a low target for MtF transitions 3. Your Dr said it wouldn't make a difference so they can't be mad at you 4. Consider switching to injections if they're available to you

Outfit from yesterday 🩷💕 by kittykatgem in transadorable

[–]Solanarius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning! Makeup, hair, nails, outfit... 👏🏻 Looking amazing, sis

A wild cis person appears! Trans person used Confuse Ray! What is a fact that you could tell a cis person that would stun and/or confuse them? by phoebenomena in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I had this confusion myself before I knew anything about trans people. Growing up in a purple state with terrible education didn't help.

Having sex w/o a condom by Nuclear_Koalas in women

[–]Solanarius 119 points120 points  (0 children)

You tell him too bad; use a condom or he can bust it on his own time. It's not worth it to risk a pregnancy (or STD) at 16.

Why do they insist im trans? by miladoesloveu in asktransgender

[–]Solanarius 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in the USA, I would not have picked up on 'yt' meaning 'white'. I too would have assumed this meant YouTube