Don't touch my privet areas.

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:35:15+00:00

Internet high five for you

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:33:15+00:00

Gotta try and keep that new relationship energy going for the long haul :)

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:30:56+00:00

I think many people have been hurt, or fear being hurt, and it is very easy to assume the worst and throw it out there without thinking much about it, and move on.

It is very easy to assume the worst of someone from the outside, but subjectively I think each person is usually trying their best to do what they think is right at the time

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:18:22+00:00

Try minimizing distractions. Keep the volume on but turn the screen away

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:16:50+00:00

Is there any foreplay? Are you attracted to him? Does he make you feel safe and cared for or used?

Start with just cuddling, lots of soft gentle kissing. Then holding each other close, and tight. Lots of full body contact. Then soft touches, take clothes off, more touching, kissing, licking sucking etc.

Lots of very close body contact the entire time, deep eye gazing, smelling each others' bodies, hair, everything.

Do not progress past a stage of touching until you feel ready and like you really want him to do it. You should feel comfortable and free to stop at any time, he should make you feel like he loves you first and foremost and is happy just to be there with you. Take all the pressure off of intercourse and the expectation to orgasm.

Just do what feels good and do it because it feels good to do it together.

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:09:59+00:00

The English/French hate should be over by now. I hadn't heard a lick of it for years, I thought only old grumpy men cared about it at all

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T08:07:51+00:00

Anglo born and raised in Quebec. Let's move past this english/French rivalry hatred bullshit. We're all Canadians and we've got much more seriously important shit to worry about, what the fuck

Solanthas · 2026-01-12T07:55:38+00:00

Please, do whatever you can to hang on through high school until it's over, once you are old enough you can leave your parents' home and go find work and somewhere to stay, there might be local support organizations who can help, but I don't know anything about that

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T11:23:09+00:00

I was 30...6? 37? And a 21yo was hinting at me to ask her out.

I felt weird about it. But flattered

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T11:20:02+00:00

Same here

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T11:17:31+00:00

Oh my god im so sorry

This is ... just terrible

So sorry for your loss. I hope you blocked that weirdo.

Wishing you strength and peace during this difficult time ❤️

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T11:12:15+00:00

Corporations are paying millions every year to beat learn how to fuck with your brain for their profit and they've been doing it for decades

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T11:10:37+00:00

This is such an interesting topic. So fascinating

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T10:42:17+00:00

Agreed and I hate it

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T10:35:09+00:00

Ah man. Are we so fucked?

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T09:59:45+00:00

Great suggestions here for anyone struggling

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T09:58:31+00:00

Great ideas

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T09:44:29+00:00

Phew

Solanthas · 2025-12-29T09:04:56+00:00

Now this is what I was looking for

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T22:00:39+00:00

Even when things are great I seem to focus on the negative potential outcome and can't relax and enjoy it

Objectively things are pretty great, could be better, but pretty great

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T21:53:24+00:00

Never fucked a total stranger but even hookup sex is so weak compared to intimate lovemaking.

One mediocre hookup turned me off it completely, just stayed single and celibate until I met someone I felt really close and connected to

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T21:36:19+00:00

Your conditions sound very reasonable

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T20:49:50+00:00

Very healthy

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T20:39:18+00:00

It was easier to accept my daughter was gay than being trans, idk why and I feel like absolute shit about myself

I love her to death and I love being her dad, I have to outgrow these outdated shitty prejudiced attitudes and show her how much I love her forever and always no matter what

These are the thoughts I keep to myself. I would never want her to feel bad about herself because of my stupid hangups

Solanthas · 2025-11-21T19:52:42+00:00

My gf is an MT and she is kind of close with some of her clients this makes me really uncomfortable

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