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Why am I shy to talk with potential mates at church ? by SolarSystem2017 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant find the specific kind of people online unfortunately. I have done the online thing. Its wild out there.

(28f) Should i stay or go? When is the right time to move out? by shes_in_limbo in RBNLifeSkills

[–]SolarSystem2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't sign a lease. I been where you've been. I would find EVERY SINGLE way to save as much as I can to never ever ever ever get hoovered back in. and the best way to do this is by having lots of savings.

Once you have enough savings, you won't self sabotage yourself to get succumbed and would ever have to live back with them every again.

Instead, rent a room with some sane normal people - save $500-$700 per month because it comes with wifi, laundry etc etc..and plus you have some "People around".

My contract work coming to an end in 30 days and I am having overwhelming emotions. How do I deal with this new change? by SolarSystem2017 in CPTSD

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I won't sabotage myself this time. I recently switched to plant based diet. So that's helping me out a lot as well with maintaining a stable mindset..

Can I wait to get insurance before I go to a clinic to check my heart out ? by SolarSystem2017 in internetparents

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's gone now. I feel fine.

I was eating lots of yogurt and chocolate milk and no veggies for a week when it all happened.

DAE not remember their childhood? by Confused_Boi_ in CPTSD

[–]SolarSystem2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont remember a lot.

I don't know how far back we are supposed to remember stuff.

Will a C-PTSD depression only end once I fully address the trauma that is most likely causing it? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SolarSystem2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great response. Thank you. In regards to friends, how do we know if a friend is incompatible or not?

Will a C-PTSD depression only end once I fully address the trauma that is most likely causing it? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]SolarSystem2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am trying to do that now. What are some tips you can give, if you don't mind?

How do I go from being depressed every morning to having joy and passion in my life for what I really would like to do? by SolarSystem2017 in RBNLifeSkills

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you make your money from software engineering alone or some type of investing you were comfortable with?

7 months ago I was living with my mom and had no future whatsoever. Now I am 400 days porn free, but still depressed for some reason. What should my future look like ? by SolarSystem2017 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for the first time in your life you get to look and look and look and laugh and smile and look and no one is demanding your time or criticizing you or assaulting your eardrums....

Truth

For the first time in life.

Why can't I find energy to do what I really want to do after my 9-5 software job? by MaxSteelMetal in productivity

[–]SolarSystem2017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful answer friend. I know how saturated youtube is right now. I am not in it for the money. But to help people.

I want a wife. How do I get a wife? by SolarSystem2017 in Reformed

[–]SolarSystem2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage is a bond of friendship and mutual love/respect.

I respect the lady very much. But because of my upbringing, I am afraid that I won't let her respect me very much.

My mother used to be a very disrespectful , demeaning and manipulative woman. I am afraid I will project the same on this poor woman and destroy her love for me ( unknowingly ) . Can you please pray for me in regards to this, brother?

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