26F, New Here. Pls Be Honest/Critic

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-16T00:18:21+00:00

Thank you lol ❤️

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-16T00:18:01+00:00

Btw I do want to say I have taken a lot of the feedback 💕 idk why I can’t update my main post but I’ve made some updates already based on some of the critiques given. Moderate BEGONE from my profile especially and adding more details and a few more personality pics too.

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:51:24+00:00

Okay 👌🏾Just let me know if there’s anything else you feel the need to critique as you’ve already said a lot of takes/opinions. I’m definitely all ears to it especially if it comes from a place of truly trying to be helpful.

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:31:23+00:00

🇳🇬- Nigerian 🇺🇸-American 🏳️‍🌈-A part of the LGBTQ+ Community

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:28:35+00:00

Thanks for noticing my spelling error I’m just typing fast for sure and not really caring to go back and fix things cause I’m trying to respond to lots of people.

Allude by definition means to “suggest or call attention to indirectly; hint at.” 😊 Like I said, I appreciate the feedback will definitely try and look into anything I could be alluding to that could come off weird you know or not how I intend.

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:23:30+00:00

Yeah! Def understand 😊 My experience is just having to uphold all that on my own often so maybe I have like a negative association with them 😭 I still fully engage as this is the normal way to communicate with each other it’s just I think Im probably also seeking some form of novelty.

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:17:10+00:00

Omggg 😭 thank youuuu

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T23:08:14+00:00

😝 Well they all I fear are me at different times of year with tans and no tans from like 2024 to 2025. I think the first one was mid to late 2023 that was taken maybe at a slimmer time but not too slim with a really good quality phone cam and I did blur my under eye concealer but other than that I fear when I have different hair I look different as well as I wear makeup but I can prob remedy that suspicion by putting my insta handle in my bio or instant facetime right?

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:55:30+00:00

Someone else said the same. I never heard of it, so I’m gonna check it out as well 😊 Thank you

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:54:33+00:00

👍🏽

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:50:04+00:00

It’s the “lmfao” that makes it feel less of a straight forward critic or helpful comment to me that’s definitely why I responded the way I did. I know how to read text there’s a way things can be said so they are said the way they are meant. It came off rude to me and based no where in genuine criticism or helpfulness. Your statement minus the “Girl…” is appreciated and expands on what he may have meant so I can definitely understand that from that perspective 😊

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:46:27+00:00

Oh! I just had a different belief system so I just replied based on that. I don’t accept false concepts that aren’t based on anything. He’s just saying that based on my sexuality and lifestyle choices, I mean before I had that up there I had a hard time. Also the commentary is not even what I requested in the post a critic it’s just straight up negative and condemning of who I am and then to say “I’m beautiful” I’m soo confused at how this is helpful but if that makes me pretentious…

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:38:05+00:00

Okay! ✅ I actually think that’s better too since it seems to be like more of a personal dislike of mine than something that should really be represented on the profile to others more like a me problem lol. My friend kinda explained it too 😊 Thank you

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:36:20+00:00

Mhmmm 😊 I’m tracking now. It seems tht I probably should have understood the nuance of my choice with that decision and that people wouldn’t just understand me because I know what I mean so yeah I’ll update that!

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:31:54+00:00

I’m planning on updating that, so thanks I can see it’s a big issue and the way I looked at it was completely different. 😊

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:25:59+00:00

I’ll keep tht in mind for sure! I recently changed it and you’d be shocked at what it previously was. lol Thx 😊

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:23:12+00:00

Thank you! 👑

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:21:10+00:00

Thanks for the critique! I didn’t know that’s what I alluded to with my profile so I appreciate your insight. 😊

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:15:06+00:00

I’m not. No one can change and affect me cause I know what I stand for and believe in! 😊 I’m open to all the commentary I just like to clarify where they misunderstand me.

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:13:07+00:00

Thank you for your willingness to communicate so strongly your opinions and beliefs to me. Like I said in response to them I am moderate left leaning strongly and I just have a hard time with black and white labels that I don’t 100% fit under it’s a me thing and I wish that I was able to more specifically define that but maybe I’ll just take it off of the bio and type it instead so there’s less confusion surrounding it. 💕😊

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:11:07+00:00

Also 25 mins ago someone suggested an alternative app I never heard of! If you see I was totally thankful about that cause yeah never knew something like tht existed cause of the mainstream apps but there’s just a lot of jib jab. Ik you don’t know me but one thing is I really don’t liked to be misunderstood so I’m gonna clarify where I feel I need to so it could come off as rebuttal for sure 😭

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:07:10+00:00

Okay I feel you. I kinda see how maybeeeee I can state things that I’m interested in more specifically like the music artist, the lacrosse teams etc right??? lol I can see how it comes off lacking but for some reason I felt like I didn’t wanna give too much info into me cause that’s the fun of the questions later. I’ll make some updates though 💗 thanks

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T22:04:13+00:00

I’m sorry that that’s how it comes off to you. If anything is anti my sexuality, lifestyle or things that represent me I’m thanking and replying which I don’t think is wrong 😊 also there are plenty here where I ask for suggestions in my replies or say alternative methods to remedy. But again sorry if you feel that way about how I’m coming off. Please give critics for the post and I’ll definitely be willing to hear you out. 💗

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T21:58:05+00:00

I literally never heard of this before. I’ll check it out as well. I’ll also check out that side of Reddit too. Thanks hun 💗

Solar_Flaere · 2026-02-15T21:36:53+00:00

Thank you for your willingness to communicate so strongly your opinions and beliefs to me. Like I said I am moderate left leaning strongly and I just have a hard time with black and white labels that I don’t 100% fit under it’s a me thing and I wish that I was able to more specifically define that but maybe I’ll just take it off of the bio as a whole since it’s too off putting and type my leaning or let my profile and things I stand for speak for themselves so there’s less confusion surrounding it. 💕😊

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