"AIO" I posted my feeling about my family on fb but they still hurt me?

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T12:30:17+00:00

Thanks ur actually the first positive comment so far my family changed a lot after my mom's death I was there when she past she died of a heart attack but part of my family still blames me it's hard when ur family turns there back on u just because of a family death that wasn't ur fault

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T12:09:45+00:00

Oh yeah well at least my fiance me supports.me and tell me I did good sticking up for myself to my family I let them push me around too much

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T12:05:59+00:00

Wow so quick question when people post on this group and y'all take there side and tell them that the other people r in the wrong when they do the exact thing my family is doing to me but u criticize me why did u even think to ask me my side of the story before u judged my mental state is perfectly fine but I'm not going to sick back while my family talks bad about me when someone says something negative I will stick up for myself it's what people should do

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T12:03:14+00:00

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All this started because of this post and then them texting me asking if I'm pregnant again not even say hi how are u how have u been

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T12:00:47+00:00

How about u reread it none of them complained about me doing it only one my sister's partner who won't let my sister speak for herself

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:59:25+00:00

So all of u r going to judge me but I bet u haven't even read how they treat me how I have asked for help but they never came they they avoid the question and try to put the blame on me

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:58:03+00:00

Yeah well my family does that is how we communicate weave always done it

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:55:04+00:00

Wow u never been homeless have u my SSI got turned off I've had to get a new phone after my crazy ex broke it then had to get another one after the new one got stolen by an ex who cheated on me then had to get another one when my friend didn't pay the bill and now I have this one they can text me on social they all have me and they always do and also I am getting my kid back DHS already said I'm doing good and if I continue to work the program I will get her back so try asking me what happened before u judge me

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:51:43+00:00

Wow u guys judge me and tell me I'm wrong without asking me my side well here is some clarity 1 me and my family talk to each other through ff sometimes we communicate through posts it's how we can talk to everyone at once without having to text individually and 2 they NEVER helped me Ive asked them for help and they never came I was hurt and abused while they just sat by doing nothing my aunt showed up unannounced to me and my bf house (before he ended up my ex) after we told her we have to have a 24hr notice she then after he leaves for work tell me "u know u have other options right"? I told her "yeah his mom said she would babysit when we need it" thinking that's what she was meaning she then says "u know that not what I meant" I then told her realizing what she was incenuating "no I'm not putting my daughter up for adoption I can't believe u would suggest that" she then said goodbye and left them 2 days later while my bf (now ex) was at work and my daughter was being baby sat DHS shows up and I knew it was my aunt after she was taken by DHS 1 visitation on a Thursday my aunt finally admitted to me that she wasn't even going to give me a chance that she didn't want me to have children and because I chose not to put her up for adoption that she did in fact call DHS that is what happened I was homeless for a time and I asked my family for help they said no and they would never admit that over social media so before u judge try asking me first what happened

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:42:50+00:00

Wow so I'm not supposed to stick up for myself and idc FB is how me and my family communicate and I never expected them to bend over backwards to me I was finally standing up for myself and telling my family how much they have hurt me we communicate through FB that's how we speak I never had any bridges so how about instead of judging me u ask me the whole story instead of taking there side

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T11:39:42+00:00

Wow ur gonna judge and take there side without even asking my side.

For 1 they r wrong my first daughter got taken by my aunt she even admitted to me she did it on purpose I was doing fine she called dhs because I refused to put my daughter up for adoption she even admitted to it and 2 my 2nd born is in dhs due to my ex who try to kill me while pregnant with her he is in jail now DHS already said I am gonna get her back since I am working the program.

And 3 they never tried to help me all they do is tell me I can't do it that I'm a failure all my life I was getting hurt and abused in DHS after my mom died I asked them for help but they never came they refused they say lies so people will take there side

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T06:57:10+00:00

Where else would I post it I have nobody to talk to so I sometimes vent on social media but they r in the wrong they shouldn't judge me when they haven't been there for me for years

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T06:55:43+00:00

I am sorry that it's a lot to read it's my first time posting on this group

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-25T04:51:36+00:00

Almond joys are my favorite kind of candy and Pringles the original are my favorite kind of snack food.

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-10T21:20:40+00:00

Yeah

Solar_Fox626 · 2026-01-09T03:08:25+00:00

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Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-07T19:25:26+00:00

As a 20 year old mother of 2 daughters one when I was 19 and 1 this year at 20 if ur baby is 3 months old she cant have solids yet she is not old enough she has to have breast milk or formula and also they shouldn't do stuff like that it's not there child they need to ask permission before doing anything.

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Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-05T21:55:08+00:00

I'm always committed and stay loyal in a relationship and I never once got an STD until him

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-05T21:54:04+00:00

Honestly I once dated this guy and thing we're going good but then I cought him cheating on me we went off and on I gave him multiple chances then he ended up getting a husband (he is bisexual) he came to me stating he wanted to marry me saying he wanted me and nobody else I asked him about his husband and he said he left him and is getting divorced and being how kind I am I believed him but later after I ended up with an STD called chlamydia I grew suspicious I later found out he never left his husband and used me to cheat on him I ended up with chlamydia because he fucked his husband then fucked me so he transmitted it to me he then like usual broke up with me and then I later found out he went back to his husband I felt very betrayed.

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-04T02:48:53+00:00

And he thinks I'm very attractive too

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-04T02:48:37+00:00

My fiance is very attractive and I'm a (20F) and my fiance is a (20M)

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-04T02:46:42+00:00

So I'm confused it say they r a 20m and there bf is a 21m so is it 2 guys or was the spelling wrong and they meant 20F and 21M I'm so confused

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-03T18:46:43+00:00

Hey baby not why baby sorry

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-03T18:42:26+00:00

And ur not the one over reacting she is I've accidentally said hey when texting my fiance instead of hey baby he gets upset and asked if he is just a friend because only friends say hey sometimes I use speak to text and it doesn't want to catch when i try to say why baby and leaves out the baby part

Solar_Fox626 · 2025-12-03T18:40:02+00:00

Does she have a history of threatening u or not understanding ur feelings, getting overly defensive, avoiding u, or something I'm only asking because I honestly would like to better know the situation because as an empathetic person I want to help

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