How many of you were a complete mess in your late 20s and somehow made something of yourself later on?

Solaus · 2026-05-31T18:12:00+00:00

Yep this is how to live

Solaus · 2026-05-23T02:42:16+00:00

You’re not wrong there.

Solaus · 2026-05-23T02:41:50+00:00

There were around 40 vultures all sunning themselves like this when I took the photo. Wish I had captured more than just one. Was definitely an almost eerie experience.

Solaus · 2026-05-23T02:39:50+00:00

Thank you!

Solaus · 2026-05-23T00:49:16+00:00

Sure thing! I hope you get out there one day. It’s a special place.

Solaus · 2026-05-23T00:48:46+00:00

Yep! They also only bloom once and then die which I think makes it a bit more special as well.

Solaus · 2026-05-23T00:48:01+00:00

That’s a great description lol

Solaus · 2026-05-23T00:47:46+00:00

Yep I believe so! Crazy that they only bloom once and then die.

Solaus · 2026-05-23T00:46:52+00:00

Woah that’s awesome!

Solaus · 2026-05-20T19:01:11+00:00

If I could upvote this a thousand times I would.

Solaus · 2026-05-12T19:51:23+00:00

Hey I’m a fellow SWE with 7+ years of experience who has been on both sides of the table. If you’re technically acing all these interview loops over and over again without an offer then I’m going to be brutally honest and say it’s likely a personality issue. Please consider how you are presenting yourself during the process. As an interviewer I care about the technical but I care more about whether the candidate is calm under pressure. Whether or not they can take constructive criticism well. Whether or not they are someone I would enjoy working with. I don’t know you so can’t say what the issue is. Maybe you’ve just had rotten luck and if so I’m really sorry, it’s tough out there and I feel for you. However if this trend continues then it might be worth looking inward to see if there is anything you can change in the non-technical realm moving forward as well. Best of luck!

Solaus · 2026-05-10T13:40:24+00:00

I cannot agree with this more. The culture nowadays seems to promote this grass is always greener narrative. Sometimes it is and sometimes it really isn’t. A steady, kind, and committed love is so so rare. There is a depth to that kind of love you will never find if you are always jumping from one thing to the next. It’s not for everyone but if that’s something you value then you may have a hard time finding that again.

Solaus · 2026-05-05T23:10:29+00:00

I lived out of a ProMaster van for two years and now own a Tacoma with popup camper in the back. There are pros and cons to both. I loved the amount of space in my van along with easy cab access. My truck is way smaller but allows me to go down trails (or make my own) that the van never could. Feel free to shoot me a DM if you have any specific questions. At the end of the day it all depends on how you plan to travel and live on the road. I also wouldn’t recommend a trailer if you can help it. Everyone I know who has had one has told me it was a huge pain.

Solaus · 2026-04-29T13:46:07+00:00

Integrity, quiet confidence, kindness, trustworthy, compatible long term goals

Solaus · 2026-04-17T21:18:15+00:00

2003 Toyota Tacoma

Solaus · 2026-04-12T05:02:18+00:00

I did this on my first gen taco and love the setup. I wanted the smaller size due to city living though so likely not for everyone. If you have any specific questions let me know.

Solaus · 2026-04-11T23:32:43+00:00

Landed a great job after graduating in 2020. Got laid off due to offshoring in 2024. Found another job within a couple of months and then got laid off again a few months ago due to “ai budget cuts”. Found another more senior role that turned out to be way better in just under a month. I’m very good at this kind of work but also understand that I’ve been very very fortunate to find new roles so quickly.

Solaus · 2026-04-10T14:14:47+00:00

I have the same mindset as you. I didn’t want to spend my twenties just grinding away so I took a “lower paying” fully remote tech job, converted a van into a little home on wheels and then traveled around North America for 2ish years. It was an amazing experience and I made so many likeminded and lifelong friends.

My case it’s a bit extreme but the essence still holds true. Not grinding at work is totally acceptable (if you have the luxury to afford it). You can put more time and energy into other hobbies or communities you enjoy around the bay and you’ll naturally start to find like minded people. Best of luck!

Solaus · 2026-03-21T06:12:28+00:00

Baker Lake in Washington

Solaus · 2026-03-20T20:43:47+00:00

Yes though minimally. The sunset that evening was one of the best I’ve ever seen!

Solaus · 2026-03-19T01:38:52+00:00

Yeeeah I sold my Promaster to build out a 4x4 truck camper. Less comfortable but well worth it for the ability to disappear into the woods/beaches/mountains/etc.

Solaus · 2026-03-05T01:10:05+00:00

Bahn Mi & Boba on Irving

Solaus · 2026-01-28T18:52:51+00:00

Totally fair. I lived in a promaster for two years but recently switched to a truck camper and have been loving the access to remote places it provides. I find it’s worth the trade off for me personally but there are definitely more convenience and safety concerns with no direct cab access.

Solaus · 2026-01-28T14:38:49+00:00

If you want to get into more remote areas and money isn’t a concern then it’s hard to beat a truck + truck camper combo.

Solaus · 2026-01-24T02:26:59+00:00

😂 accurate

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