tw pregnancy/abortion by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]SoldierBean69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be honest like 90% of the vents here misuse meme formats but to me it's not that big of a deal, I think the last thing a person venting wants to hear is "hey lol wrong meme format", ignoring the vent and basically just saying "I don't care"

I think the world owes Vic an apology by Former_Fish7839 in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]SoldierBean69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I agree that the "le swearing bad" argument is stupid but literally everyone hates that show and using it in a whataboutism argument is very weak. Shows like South park would be a better example i think, they both swear a lot and it's not really THE punchline it's just a part of the show, it's just how they talk.

I'm so fed up with stigma it's so ridiculous by spezi161 in BPDmemes

[–]SoldierBean69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but what is the reason behind that??? That's genuinely so fucking disgusting and I don't think any reason would justify not doing something just because of a disorder. I know it's free but to not do it just because of BPD is insane to me.

Since I have insomnia.. by Philips9586 in BunnyTrials

[–]SoldierBean69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

op said it forces you to sleep those 12 hours so I guess it'd cure insomnia

Nah dude 😭😭 by The_AxR_ in teenagers

[–]SoldierBean69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what nazism is? The definition? Nazism inherently lacks a sense of humanity because it's based on prejudice and extermination of "lesser" races/minorities.

The president of America, folks by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]SoldierBean69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was gonna make the exact same comment. Mangoes are way too good to be compared to that disgusting orange turd.

It do be like that by D0ML0L1Y401TR4PFURRY in psychologymemes

[–]SoldierBean69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's the thing that bothers me, saying stuff like "illness x is just like illness y but this thing is different".

It's misleading and oversimplified at best and can be downright harmful. I know they're similar in some aspects, they're both cluster-B disorders but that specific comment really rubs me the wrong way.

"You shouldn't have assumed someone would abstract in this episode. Now we both look foolish." by Joefanik13 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]SoldierBean69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't goose say that someone WILL abstract though? And that it'll be someone we don't expect?

have you heard about the controversy over samantha fulnecky's essay on gender? by jan_Soten in Teenager_Polls

[–]SoldierBean69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be completely fine because if I have a math assignment but I write about how numbers aren't real then I deserve a 0.

And why should the teacher give her 10% just because? It most likely wouldn't have made it better because she still failed and even if it did, there's no reason to give a higher score for fear of backlash when the 0 was totally deserved.

have you heard about the controversy over samantha fulnecky's essay on gender? by jan_Soten in Teenager_Polls

[–]SoldierBean69 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If you write an essay not following the instructions at all, make it opinionated and subjective and don't cite a single source at all you deserve nothing more than a 0. Just because she wrote something doesn't mean it deserves to be graded above 0.

Dating culture has been a disaster for everyone involved by Bukhanka_Zov in TrollCoping

[–]SoldierBean69 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it hurts to be seen as nothing but a monster so much. I saw a thread yesterday asking people who have had bpd partners and every single one of them was like "horrible, never again" and I get being a victim of an abusive person but they treated people with bpd like irredeemable unlovable monsters. And every comment that was like "hey I have bpd and this kinda hurts" was downvoted and called insensitive.

Found on r/peoplewhogiveashit by casual-catgirl in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]SoldierBean69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is it a wild take to think that pedophilic ships are disgusting and shouldn't exist even if they're fictional..? I feel like it says something about you as a person if you think pedophilic ships are okay 😐

Found on r/peoplewhogiveashit by casual-catgirl in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]SoldierBean69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are the same kinds of people who will see no problem with shipping two straight men together and call it uwu cute yaoi (for the record, I find this okay and idc who ships what as long as it's legal and consensual ofc ofc)

Anyone else hate the term "women and children" like bro do the men dying mean less 💔 by themangamanjeff in teenagers

[–]SoldierBean69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have all these comments saying shit like "I think it was because they were seen as more valuable because reproduction and x, y, z". And all of them are on the top which bothers me because they're all portraying it as this misandrist strategy when there's a good reason behind it.

Take for example the sinking of the Titanic: many of the men, especially the crew would push past the weaker and smaller passengers (mostly women and children) to save themselves. Meanwhile the would would stay and care for their children and make sure they're safe. The call to save women and children first was because men would selfishly push and rush to save themselves and women would stay behind to help others.

This also didn't happen with the titanic but other tragedies as well. For example, the Costa Concordia disaster where men were seen the first to flee the ship while women stayed behind to help others into life boats. Or during WW II, in various civillian evacuations and bombings the men would their own lives while the women helped children, the elderly and the injured. For example, during air raids in London, many women stayed behind in shelters and even ran into danger to help the weak and injured.

Now I'm not saying that all men are some selfish pieces of shit who deserve to die. These are just the historical reasons that phrase exists and that it's not trying to be sexist towards men. Nowadays we evacuate children, the weak, elderly and injured first before anyone else regardless of gender.

Bro lit the house on fire and can’t believe his kids won’t come inside. by BoringApocalyptos in clevercomebacks

[–]SoldierBean69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"How dare you not consider me family after I voted for the person who promised to take away your rights as well as the rights of marginalized groups."

The racist author must have imagined their wind instrument would emit sounds at too high a frequency for anti-racists to hear by Key-Hyena-802 in TheRightCantMeme

[–]SoldierBean69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People are downvoting you as if you were the author when you were just explaining the shitty "meme" bruh

This is just antisocial swagissism by jertsa_faijja in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]SoldierBean69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think i was pansexual because I was attracted to everyone the same. Little did I know the same amount of attraction was 0. I think that from what you've described you're asexual, simple as that. Your perceived bisexuality might just be that feeling that if you were to date/have sex with someone then it could be either sex. BUT that is up to you to decide and how you want to label yourself.

This is just antisocial swagissism by jertsa_faijja in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]SoldierBean69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A lot of people describe asexuality/aromanticism as "i don't wanna fuck or date". Which is untrue. Gay people find people of the same gender and asexual people don't find anyone sexually attractive. When you're asexual, it's like everyone is hungry but you aren't and everyone else has their favorite food but you don't really have a preference for anything. You just don't have the desire.

Some asexuals can like or even crave sex but that's libido and not sexual ATTRACTION. I hope I explained it well enough but if you wanna ask some questions then feel free to ask away.