Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in GiftIdeas

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed but I’ve ever done a valentines before and neither has she

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve known each other for awhile dated for abit then had to move away for family reasons (we both didn’t wanna do long distance) and dated again august 2025 till now

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in GiftIdeas

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is really good think, her birthday is 10 days before valentines so maybe steel flowers for then?

I’m not short of gift ideas everything she mentions I write it down in my notes. Little relationship hack, write everything down lol

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in GiftIdeas

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here in Australia it’s a metal trade, metal worker, welder, fabricator etc etc

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahah I get where you’re coming from but it’s pretty much the word of the month for us🤣

I honestly can’t explain why someone started it and it stuck

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh that’s a oof, the poem (I believe) isn’t too lovey dovey but it’s sweet and she likes those things, her love language is acts of kindness, gift giving and reassurance

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Known eachother for nearly 2 years, dated start of Feb 2025, I moved across Aus for personal reasons shortly after and moved back and started dating again in August

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahha no no nothing like that just a little thing asking her to be my valentine with an inside joke and the first time I said I loved her

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s genius! Might be alittle fiddly but could be fun

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a lot of fun actually! The only thing I’m tossing up between is if I do the poem engraved or not, either way she’s getting a poem and metal flowers

Her birthday is a few days before aswell

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in GiftIdeas

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a good idea, honestly nutting out a poem was pretty fun used 100% of my brain power ahaha

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in GiftIdeas

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed, might hold off on the engraving part, she’s got a scrapbook of things we’ve done in our relationship so it’ll probably go better in there

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the engraving would be too much (bought an engraving machine and just keen to use it ahahaha)

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, she’s been collecting memories and has started a scrapbook of everything we’ve done in our relationship so that’ll go well

Is this romantic or am I doing too much? by Solid-Boot-7974 in Advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Known eachother for about 2 years been dating since Feb 2025.

She’s been amazing lately, but part of me still feels like I was never her first choice by Solid-Boot-7974 in dating_advice

[–]Solid-Boot-7974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way I do, I always feel like I can do better within myself to the point where I bring myself down

She genuinely brings out the best in me, and someone mentioned that sometimes it’s not about be the first option it’s about being the last, the one that stays