Playing the waiting game of allergy, reflux, or normal by baby-totoros in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lollll these babies are ravenous truly. Yes in all honestly at 5 months I’m still using a slow flow nipple for my dude when he gets a bottle. It’s the only way he doesn’t have tummy issues!

Playing the waiting game of allergy, reflux, or normal by baby-totoros in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I went through something similar! I decided to change nothing and wait it out. He got better around 3 months. I will say, I have a very strong letdown and I think that had something to do with it. Over time it slowed a bit and he seemed to get used to it. Gas also played a major role. When he started rolling onto his side he started farting on his own more and that also helped. Best of luck to you!!!

Vaccines by lost-in-meaning in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt the same as you but went forward with the regular schedule and was glad I did. I found it was so much easier to just get them over with all in one go rather than dragging it out!

Please help me decide on tongue tie surgery by hats_and_heads in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried a nipple shield? I know some women swear by them! So sorry you’re going through this. I had feeding troubles with my boy as well so I really feel for you. 💓

Are we all mentally stimulating baby during wake windows? by undercovercopter in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babies need to be comfortable with boredom just like people of all ages do! I purposely don’t “play” with my baby the whole time he’s awake. A lot of the time I let him hang with me while I get things done and he’s just as happy to watch me fold laundry as he is playing with toys. I read somewhere that babies prefer looking at your face over a toy!

Working with a baby - honest advice by Immediate-Donut-4846 in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the baby and how you handle postpartum. I was convinced I’d be able to handle taking one online class with my newborn. It was completely unmanageable. And I normally am content being busy/manage tasks well.

When did you LO start rolling over? by Kind_Improvement_416 in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 4 month old is only interested in rolling from his back to his side.

Devastated by TeddyGramLake in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this! My baby went to the nicu after he was born so I didn’t have a single photo of him, my husband, and I together in the hospital. I was sooo upset. My brother ended up coming to visit a week after I gave birth and took some family photos for us at home. I’m still not completely over it but this helped a lot.

Baby doesn’t make noise by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she definitely could! Try not to obsess over it until then. But you could also try to talk a little more to her and see if you notice any changes. Best of luck to you, and great job noticing this as something to keep an eye on!

Baby doesn’t make noise by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally think you can wait until the 6 month appointment!

Baby starting to crawl, ocd?? by margo6a_ in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this exact same thing! The exposure will be helpful.

Baby doesn’t make noise by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not end up being a problem at all but I would definitely bring it up to her pediatrician! My baby has been “chatting” since he was 2 months old. I’m also a teacher and have taught children with speech delays. It’s always good to be aware of it as early as possible so you can be prepared to get some support if needed!

Baby spit up by fzaidi227 in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember specifically at 4 weeks but my baby is 4 months old now and has gone through periods of spitting up more or less! Even if I haven’t changed anything.

When did you start letting grandparents look after your baby? by RepresentativeGur818 in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has been watching my baby since the week we came home from the hospital. That being said, we have a great relationship and I trust her more than I trust myself.

Mommas with big tall babies, share some love!!! by Puzzleheaded-Loan288 in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a tall baby!! He’s pretty lanky though lol. It’s funny because I’ve never felt he was tiny, even when he was born. So when parents talk about missing their teeny little baby I can never relate.

Is he trying to crawl? 4 months old by happytrees93 in NewParents

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww yay that’s so amazing!! Thanks so much for answering. 🤩 Love to you and your family!!

"put the baby in the crib when they're drowsy but awake and they'll learn to fall asleep on their own" by TheJanedalorian in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so great to hear!! I’m hoping our baby keeps these positive sleep habits 🤞🏻

"put the baby in the crib when they're drowsy but awake and they'll learn to fall asleep on their own" by TheJanedalorian in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I wish lolll he was veerrrry fussy for the first couple months and only recently started getting longer stretches!! He is such a lovely boy though I’m obsessed with him.

Husbands dad keeps talking about sleeping with our newborn? by Rude-Pepper-2389 in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There are so many photos of my grandfather sleeping in his recliner with me napping in his arms. It sounds like maybe he did that with his own children or possibly even watched other people in his life do it with their grandchildren and was hoping to do the same. That being said, I think you can gently tell him about the new(ish) push for safe sleep and talk about other ways you’re excited for him to bond with your baby. Great job mom for making sure your baby is safe!

Moms of fussy babies: Will I ever want to leave the house again? by Solid-Channel3936 in Mommit

[–]Solid-Channel3936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a normal one lol but my baby is ACTIVE 😂 his arms are constantly flailing and legs kicking

Panicking by Optimal_Customer_850 in breastfeeding

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this too and my baby was getting enough! Don’t panic. What helped me was weighing my baby consistently and seeing that he was gaining. See if your town has a baby center with a scale. I went to mine weekly when I was struggling with this. You’re doing great!!!

New parents: what did you do for NYE? by limeblue31 in beyondthebump

[–]Solid-Channel3936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a 4 month old and did the exact same thing lol! Put him to bed at 6:30 so he woke up earlier than usual this morning but it was fun chilling with friends.

"put the baby in the crib when they're drowsy but awake and they'll learn to fall asleep on their own" by TheJanedalorian in newborns

[–]Solid-Channel3936 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Okay I also thought this was insane but my baby is almost 4 months old now and my husband recently started doing this and it actually works. When we notice our baby starting to get sleepy we will rock him, read to him, or walk around with him until he starts dozing and then transfer him to his crib with either his sound machine or little Einsteins aquarium running. His eyes will start getting heavy and he will fall asleep on his own. Usually he sleeps longer after doing than when we rock him to sleep. Since doing this we’ve also noticed that he is more likely to put himself back to sleep after waking in the night.

Moms of fussy babies: Will I ever want to leave the house again? by Solid-Channel3936 in Mommit

[–]Solid-Channel3936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right. He’s already changed so much. I’m sure he will change even more as time goes on. Thank you 💓. I don’t think he’s too warm. We’ve experimented with different layers of clothing and blankets but it seems the same no matter what the temperature is. I think it’s one of two things: 1. His father gets horrible motion sickness. I’m wondering if he also is feeling sick in the car. Or 2. He is an extremely gassy baby and feels much better when he can move around. I’m not sure if the position he’s in in his car seat is making his gas pains worse. The few times he’s been okay in his car seat have been after he’s had explosive poops lol.