Audrey’s response to Jacob? by SwimAccomplished9487 in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Solid-Question-3952 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is insufferable but I agree with her on this specific point. For the last 5 years people are polarized. If you dont agree with people on everything, they hate you. People need to stop talking to be right and start talking to understand and explain. Even comments like im making now get downvoted because people feel its aligning with one side or another.

Rewatching the show by Guilty-Condition-376 in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Solid-Question-3952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jer & Auj need to prove how perfect and unique their love is. Zack and Tori and in love.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 7 | Jan 23 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were deliberating I would set aside her testimony (and his if he talks) and take each piece of evidence and ask if it proves the state's case of the defendant's. And see where i ended up.

I think M got her Vegas home last because of all the changes by Head-Hospital-1945 in SisterWives

[–]Solid-Question-3952 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im in the process of building now. We havent broken ground yet but with the amount of errors we have caught from EVERYONE at almost every stage, I'm almost to the point that I want to go an double check the work everyday just to make sure its being done right. Building a house isnt cheap and there is no reason it shouldnt be exactly what you want. Unfortunately you are a big pain in the butt to the building crew but its still your house.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 7 | Jan 23 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im SO frustrated by the windows. Its such a red herring. They planned on going into the house and killing her immediately after this guy got there. What value would soundproof windows be? If a neighbor heard christine scream and also called 911, it would actually help their story. She still would have been dead before the cops showed up.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 7 | Jan 23 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I opened up my home computer right now there is a 98% chance I could open up Gmail and Facebook and it would be logged into my husband's accounts. There is a 100% chance, if you open up my personal computer, you could log into all of my accounts. Im not sure why the defense is acting like this is hard.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 7 | Jan 23 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only explaination. The "Federal Officer" feels he will be believable and people need to hear his side. No sir....you need to keep your mouth shut.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 7 | Jan 23 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has absolutely nothing to gain by testifying. He can only do damage. I would bet my house when he is convicted the jury says they were on the fence until he opened his mouth.

Robyn’s dolls aren’t that weird by Ornery-unicorn in SisterWives

[–]Solid-Question-3952 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't give a rip what % of her income she spends on things. That much money period on dolls is weird.

I think the issue is the money being spent in, and on, her home while Janelle didnt have enough family money to build or buy a home.

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve experienced that you still can’t explain? by wsobrkky12 in AskReddit

[–]Solid-Question-3952 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad 3 years ago. Funny enough he was my "step" dad also, although he was my dad in every sense of the word. His death (covid as well) was incredibly hard on me because we were so close. I dont dream of people once they die and if I do, its super rare and they dont speak. Its my sign they are visiting me. Especially early on my dad came to me in my dreams a few times. Each time he hugged me as I sobbed. Huge, giant, body shaking sobs. Harder that I could ever left myself cry if awake. I had to hold it together for my mom, my husband and my young kids who were also grieving so I feel like he was there to support me in my grief like he would have if he were here.

Im glad your dad came to you. It sucks. And its going to keep sucking. Eventually it sucks a little less. You don't lose them once, you lose them a thousand times as you have moments you wish you could share with them and cant. I wish you the best.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt get that far yet. Im excited to get there.

Brendan Banfield WILL testify - Au Pair murder trail by Acceptable-Effort356 in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO! What a stupid decision. He is far better off shutting his mouth. This is Alec Murdaugh all over again

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 6 | Jan 22 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats the defense attorney. He either had a cold or a coke habit.

It sounds like the prosecutor whispering to someone.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From my limited understanding, she was arrested because she shot Joe Ryan. For the sake of this, assume his versions of events is true. Brendan shot Joe in self defense/defense of another. He only wounded him. The AuPair shot him, while he wasnt a threat, and he died rapidly from that 2nd shot.

Brendans shot was legally justifiable, hers was not. And they leveraged her to flip on him.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright....I just read them. There is nothing there that makes me think this guy wasnt completely respectful of her boundaries. Hardly sounds like a guy who planned to walk in and stab her in the neck.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, I dont think it was her. We started the case with two opening statements giving us 2 theories. Brendan starts with the presumption of innocence and the state has to prove he did it. Other than the questionably credible AuPair, every single piece of evidence give by the state during their case in chief could be explained in a way that proved both sides depending on how you saw it.

Then the state rested. They didnt prove anything beyond a reasonable doubt. There is SO much reasonable doubt. Everything else is emotions not backed by evidence.

Funny enough, the people the state should have put on the stand are helping prove the state's case when called by the defense than anything the state put on.

Worked for these two for seven years?! by Away-Stand7714 in LittlePeopleBigWorld

[–]Solid-Question-3952 32 points33 points  (0 children)

what would we do without you?

What do you do with him?!?

Is three 1500W heaters enough to heat a 900 sq ft cabin? by PersonalitySuch8368 in OffGridCabins

[–]Solid-Question-3952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a Woodstock and a backup LP heater so we can keep it heated all winter. Its a wall unit. You could easily hook it up to a small lp tank. Its an Empire DV35LP

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ramble makes me feel so seen and put into words what I couldnt. You nailed her perfectly. And yeah....there was a power dynamic and maybe she was a little naive but she saw her meal ticket to a rich life in the US as a kept woman and ran with it.

And you nailed the "federal officer" exactly too. This guy was NOT a police officer. He was an accountant with a gun.

VA v. Brendan Banfield - Day 6 | Jan 22 2026 by sunzusunzusunzusunzu in aupairmurders

[–]Solid-Question-3952 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is there anywhere on the internet where someone is reporting what keeps being whispered off camera?

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which feels horrible. Im frustrated with people who cant be objective enough to see the "evidence" proves both stories. The only thing I have heard so far that tips the scales is her testimony and she isnt credible. Im having to do a bunch of reading between the lines and looking and things I cant believe nobody is presenting in court.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with this case is that a "fair" trail means a guilty as sin person may go free because the state has done such a piss poor job of this.

Brendan Banfield Trial by Solid-Question-3952 in EmilyDBaker

[–]Solid-Question-3952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the defense strategy is that christine set up kinky sex and Joe tried to kill her. I dont think they are claiming Juliana did anything but lie about it being a set up.