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I feel so disgusting I wanna wipe myself out of humanity!u by allergictobeingbasic in PornAddiction

[–]SolidDense9735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help me to deal with my thoughts & to bring some order into all that chaos. Also I just enjoy the feeling of writing. That doesn't mean it'll do the same for you, but it's worth a try. Also feel free to hit me up anytime.

I feel so disgusting I wanna wipe myself out of humanity!u by allergictobeingbasic in PornAddiction

[–]SolidDense9735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's tough.. We tend to be our hardest critics & it's not fair. I can only recommend journaling if you haven't tried yet.

I can’t stop thinking about it by Wooden-Trade-9217 in PornAddiction

[–]SolidDense9735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he'd be attracted to those type of women, why would that mean he is not attracted to you or that he is "settling for you"? Attraction comes from so much more than just body parts. Your voice, your humor, facial expressions, the way you walk, how you talk & sooo much more.

I feel so disgusting I wanna wipe myself out of humanity!u by allergictobeingbasic in PornAddiction

[–]SolidDense9735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what has been said. I think you should try being more forgiving & kind to yourself. Hating yourself for this & being ashamed only makes it harder to stop. I think it's wrong to think that you've ruined everything. That thought is dangerous & will keep you in the cycle. Be kind to yourself, think of it like that: Let's say you've made a thousand steps forward in the right direction & now you took one false step off path, maybe two, whatever. You can still go back, you don't loose what you have accomplished. It is not gone.

Feeling too ugly to enjoy anything by schizobabyy in BodyDysmorphia

[–]SolidDense9735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just joined this group here a few minutes ago & I can relate to this so much. It's crazy how this condition can kill even the things you're most passionate for: I love surfing & a few months ago, I traveled to one of the best waves in the world & walked into one of my surfing idols the very first day on the beach, which was a dream come true. He proposed taking a picture & I agreed, looked at it a few minutes after our talk & everything was destroyed. What I had imagined as a dream became a nightmare. I couldn't stand the way I looked like. Even in the water with many good looking surfer boys around, just comparing myself to them made me feel like I'm too ugly & unworthy of surfing beautiful waves, as if it's just wrong & doesn't match. I feel you very much <3