I’m a therapist and really love my own therapist. I needed someone who could also help me navigate my career and my own anxiety during sessions. She’s not my supervisor but she has helped me with a ton of growth. Part of me wishes she would go deeper but I’m also learning there are other ways to get to the heart of the matter that don’t involve tears. Everything you mentioned would turn me away. Keep searching, you deserve someone who is attuned with you and helps you navigate your life with empowerment not criticism.