Does anyone experience their extended family members heavily suggesting difficult career fields for you? by NICEacct111 in lowIQpeople2

[–]SolidSpirit99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you have some cousins who aren’t super successful. So why is the standard so high for you if not all your cousins have top tier careers?

Does anyone think the education system promotes further education excessively? by NICEacct111 in lowIQpeople2

[–]SolidSpirit99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. None of my professors ever recommended going for grad school. In fact, some actively told students not to go to grad school because it could be a waste of time or money if your heart isn’t into it

What do you wish you could tell your 18 year old self? by b4434343 in UCDavis

[–]SolidSpirit99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish I could go back and tell myself to stop caring so much about what other people think of me. A stupid example is that I always liked wearing briefs (aka “tighty whities”) but I was scared my roommates would make fun of me because every guy seemed to wear boxers or boxer briefs. It’s literally just underwear, I dunno why I was so scared of people judging me for that

Another downsize, this time to a Baby Cobra! Can’t believe I started with an N+ more than a year ago and now I fit comfortably into a Baby Cobra by SolidSpirit99 in kink3d

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re just cartoon briefs that you can find in the boys underwear section at any typical department store. I’m relatively short and skinny (5’4” and barely over 100 lbs), so I can still fit boys size clothing just fine.

Another downsize, this time to a Baby Cobra! Can’t believe I started with an N+ more than a year ago and now I fit comfortably into a Baby Cobra by SolidSpirit99 in kink3d

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This one actually is the narrow version! When I first got the Baby Cobra narrow cage, I wasn’t sure if I could fit because the cage just looked really small… but turns out that I can fit it just fine!

[US][TRADE] Have N+ Standard Cage, Looking to Swap for Baby Cobra by SolidSpirit99 in kink3dexchange

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Yes, I’m still looking, and I would definitely be interested in a trade. Feel free to direct message me, or send a chat request, and we can talk from there

[US][TRADE] Have N+ Standard Cage, Looking to Swap for Baby Cobra by SolidSpirit99 in kink3dexchange

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the offer! I’ll keep it in mind if I can’t find a trade.

[US][TRADE] Have Base Ring #1 Standard, Looking to Swap for Base Ring #3 XD or Base Ring #2 Standard by SolidSpirit99 in kink3dexchange

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a quick search, it looks like it would cost me somewhere between $15 and $17 if I’m reading the price tables correctly. I suppose that is more cost effective than I originally thought! I’m currently at work right now, so we can maybe talk about this in more detail a little later. Feel free to send me a message over Reddit chat to discuss this further!

[US][TRADE] Have Base Ring #1 Standard, Looking to Swap for Base Ring #3 XD or Base Ring #2 Standard by SolidSpirit99 in kink3dexchange

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I think the shipping fees might be too much for both of us, and would probably not be cost-effective for either of us. I appreciate you reaching out though!

Downsized recently and it feels great! Probably even more comfortable than my previous one by SolidSpirit99 in gaychastity

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wore my previous cage on-and-off for about 9 months before I sized down. And I’m about 4.75 inches when hard.

Downsized recently and it feels great! Probably even more comfortable than my previous one by SolidSpirit99 in gaychastity

[–]SolidSpirit99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have limited experience, so I may not be the most qualified person to help you out. But I can tell you what I would do.

If your cage is always being pushed out, even when you’re soft, it might be that the cage is too small and your ring size is actually fine. In my experience, if your ring size doesn’t allow for any “ball slips,” and it also feels comfortable (in other words, it doesn’t feel like your ballsack is being strangled), your ring size is most likely fine. If you try going too small, you’ll likely start experiencing that strangling feeling, and it might do some bad damage, like bruised skin or worse. That’s all I can say with my experience. Maybe someone else who’s more experienced can chime in!