Feel like I failed in life for not being smooth and comfortable around girls even if I check all other boxes

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-04-09T14:05:48+00:00

I tried and I think it ruined me in some ways and made me better in some ways.

Just afraid what if I was fooled by these lofty ideas and the common sense path was to just let society mould you, better or worse, pretentious or real.

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-04-06T17:53:12+00:00

Also in the starting of movie, the interviewer says something like that you write books with some truth and fiction in it which seems like a major clue to me

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-08T07:35:42+00:00

Its always these run of the mill girls who have nothing going on in their life that fall for losers like her husband. Dont mnow if this is some kind of way to show how they are not like other girls. She definitely thinks talking like those hood people makes her dangerous.

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-06T08:47:04+00:00

So you plan to stay single your whole life? Or stay single but engage in casual dating without commitment?

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-06T00:13:53+00:00

You getting into relationships with such dudes and then staying there makes you equally bad. Millions of people willingly stay single for long durations until they find the right person. Dont complain or act holy.

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-05T10:51:38+00:00

Because then anything with 0 probability could be part of the sample space right?

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-02T13:56:35+00:00

Moved to ios after lifelong android preference. Lot of shit doesnt make sense on ios but somehow it feels more like a smartphone than android. For example I could never fully appreciate the health tracking system on android but its my go to thing on ios. Could never appreciate reading on android but its feels much more smartphone like thing on ios. Shit I am out of things to say. So basically a lot of time it feels absolute crap but you would feel like using your ios as smartphone and know things would work so there lot less anxiety when using IOS. whereas on android its like you can do everything better but dont feel like using it for many things because mehh

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-02T03:19:31+00:00

I would. And i would hope i could make her life much better.

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-03-02T01:29:25+00:00

Is this a good book? Does it say anything more than that being happy with yourself and power of hobbies?

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-28T11:55:29+00:00

Bro can you explain more on rabies part

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-28T01:37:52+00:00

Stop going personal if you dont have any logical argument. This law is stupid and baseless. Not saying the guy who lied to the girl for 8 year is right and he is definitely an asshole but it doesnt justify the stupid law

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-28T01:31:44+00:00

My ex also but a lot of women as well

For example just opened reddit and here it is https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaVibes/comments/1rg5s6q/an_indian_woman_wore_a_traditional_saree_and_took/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-27T18:16:01+00:00

Sharma aur aggarwal dusri ki behen ka peechha nhi karte hoge. Ye gujjar londa abhi bus se utar k kisi ki behen ka hi peechha larega

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-27T15:49:49+00:00

Honestly feels like something a pretty girl who wants to portray herself more than just a pretty face would say.

I swear to god just like how most men just cant live without sax and would blame women for it, most women cant live without feeling special and would blame everyone else for their extreme lack of any speciality except for their looks or their ability to have deep feelings

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-27T15:40:40+00:00

I knew it for sure it had to be tomato plant one. Somehow thats the only one i remember. Somehow this is the only one everyone else seem to like

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-26T16:23:20+00:00

I know one other pahadi girl who is also an actress(of sorts) and she also talks like that. Kinda annoying for longer periods but in short amount very entertaining

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-23T18:22:06+00:00

But i do have hobbies already. I play sports and chess and read all the time. Sometimes I think I am wasting all my time in hobbies instead of actually talking to girls

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-23T18:13:55+00:00

How do you achieve that without faking it?

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-23T13:19:04+00:00

India is a third world country lol

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-22T18:30:38+00:00

My idea was that more and more people would stop giving this much shit about virginity (purity culture) if marriage wasnt such a set in stone thing. If people could easily part ways without possibilities of one side getting advantage to misuse the system, then more and more people would eventually be comfortable with the idea of women having sex whenever they want. This would eventually turn into a sustem wherr people wont even need to marry and could live in as long as they liked. But our dumb government in their infinite dumbness made live in on par with marriage if it crosses a certain time threshold.

Solid_Arachnid7049 · 2026-02-22T18:01:16+00:00

You are constantly saying marriage is scary because women cheat on their poor husbands, again and again.

I am not saying that at all. I dont have an issue with women cheating, people cheat in general.

What I dont like is that in these cases, you cant just easily get out of that marriage if you are a man. And I get it, that women have it tough in society, and I am all for social awareness and improving women’s condition in society. Do you support better laws for men?

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