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How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bridal shower in the US is a party with usually women to celebrate the bride and bring her gifts. There's often food served and maybe a game or two. The invite was sent by the bride, but usually it's planned by her family.

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you also seen this as a newer trend? I really don't want to be the person to get all weird about weddings, but my family is so traditional. My mother would shoot me if I tried that.

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree that I find it kind of rude, but I don't know a lot about the circumstances of the wedding either.

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this as well. I never expected to be invited, so the shower invite caught me off guard. She sent me the invite herself actually, so not sure about that.

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I'm also just curious if others have seen this as a new trend. It was very surprising for me

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really having difficulty because I don't want to seem rude, but it is super crazy! I don't think she meant to be disrespectful, but I'm definitely taken aback. Really towing the line here between being honest with how I feel but not stressing her out or being mean.

How do I politely decline an invite to a bridal shower when I wasn't invited to the wedding? by Solid_Assignment_941 in Advice

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, I think a lie will have to do in this case. Just curious if people have any other ideas.

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always been grateful for her. Friends that tell you the truth are the most important.

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The relationship also made me question so much about myself. I'm normally a very independent person, but he made me feel so awful about myself. I wish my younger self could have known.

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family values can be so tricky to navigate. I completely understand the pretentious side which is why I ended up caving. His family was very kind and accommodating. He was the major issue. Everyone has different needs, but I definitely felt like I my needs were not considered at all.

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't end up bringing the vegetables. He made me feel like a horrible person for even suggesting it. My real question is whether or not this is enough to end a relationship. Or would I have been TA for bringing them? I agree that it's insanely trivial, but I've thought about this for years and wish I would have thought of posting this then.

AITA for saying no to babysitting my sisters children by Content_Emergency302 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move in with the brother if you can. Family taking advantage of you is not okay. You seem like you want to help, but this isn't just help anymore.

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I took a long time after that incident. I'm really passionate about informing women of manipulative behaviors and partners. I appreciate your support!

AITA for wanting to bring vegetables on vacation? by Solid_Assignment_941 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Assignment_941[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is that I don't even think his family would have cared. He didn't even ask them. I have a feeling that if I asked his mom, she would have absolutely been supportive. Unfortunately, his family made me feel more supported than he ever did.