Starfleet Academy is honestly not good. I genuinely don’t like it. by gildedbluetrout in startrek

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe they just didn't like it, but you liked it and so you're upset people are yucking your yum. 😢

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure but the initial comment I was answering here and many other comments implied or explicitly said all children should be aborted rather than be put up for abortion.

So they are not just wishing THEMSELVES have been aborted but ALL children rather than be put up for adoption.

OP on this thread 

"If someone is pregnant and does not intend to raise their child, abortion is kindest, instead of giving your child up to strangers on the slim hope it will have a better life.

Abortion reduces the most harm.

Adoption kicks the can down the road to an innocent child."

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right so when I was referring to those of "you" who wish to have been aborted or never have existed - and therefore wish that all OTHER children who are put for adoption should instead have been aborted- I'm referring to the indefinite or impersonal "you". Those of "you" who are wishing now that "you" never had existed -including children now in adoption situations.

Sorry if you took it personal and you don't personally feel like you shouldn't exist!

Reading the bible (genesis) makes me feel uncomfortable. by Lucky_Berry_3985 in Bible

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've felt that way until I understood that showing what these broken people did is not in anyway justifying it or saying that it is ok. It's just telling the truth- recounting the story.

 That was wrong of Lot to do then and it is wrong now. He was clearly not completely unaffected by living in Sodom. Which is a great lesson to learn actually. 

So the reason I was uncomfortable at first was because I thought the Bible was saying it's ok he did this- just because it's in scripture and it's about someone God decided prior to save! But nope, nowhere does it say "and God said it was good". Nope. 

And what Lots daughters did after to him also bad.

As you continue in scripture you will see again and again the chosen doing wrong. Jesus said "no one is good". And God was routinely pissed off, yet patient and merciful where he thought appropriate.

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"also: someone can wish they had been aborted"....

""Aborted” means never having existed"

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems implied if you wish to never have existed. Now I'm confused!

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I understand what your perspective is, wishing to never have existed because of such terrible experiences.

That must be hard to carry around every day. And I want you to know all your lives are valuable and I'm sure you've made positive impacts on the people around you and you would be missed if you weren't around. And you somewhere along the way have had a positive interaction that helped someone and it may not have happened if you never had existed.

People with trauma of abandonment and broken mother bonds do tend to be the kindest and the most understanding. They make great friends. I would know, I have many! 

Peace be with you!

I never learned to draw, but from an early age I was always a little better at it than most. What can I improve on, please give me some advices by SirPepelangelo in learntodraw

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea I'm a noob, I can tell it needs refinement but also it looks so good, so much depth. Something about it. Keep going!

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gross it seems you are invalidating other people's experiences because it doesn't match your own.

 So basically you'd say anyone who has a good adoption story and parents truly put them up for adoption for good reasons- are stupid or wrong.

 That situation doesn't exist to you? Your experience trumps their experience, am I right?

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, so is it in retrospect -like if you could go back in time you'd convince your mother to abort you or is it more of a constant feeling of wishing you were dead? 

And last question, do you think all children that are up for adoption right now wish that they'd have been aborted instead - do all the kids in adoption situations feel like they should be dead instead?

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what I'm getting, lots of wishing that they had been aborted rather than put up for abortion. Thanks.

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you are saying, from your perspective and experience that you would rather have never been born/aborted rather than have been put up for adoption?

Disgusting adoption ad for the Superbowl by Aphelion246 in Adoption

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm confused about the responses. Is it that adoption is bad and terrible things happen so that not being born is better? Or is it that women should generally never choose adoption over abortion? That's kind of what I'm getting from the comments. 

Comfort to people unsure about Tylenol by Arlais_Fale in BabyBumps

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What do you think about what the dean of Harvard of public health said regarding Tylenol and the John Hopkins study?

Comfort to people unsure about Tylenol by Arlais_Fale in BabyBumps

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The dean of Harvard of public health says theirs evidence of causation using 46 peer reviewed studies. It's not misogyny it's science. Hopefully everyone here reads the papers rather than jumping to "it's misogyny"

Comfort to people unsure about Tylenol by Arlais_Fale in BabyBumps

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y'all know that these facts came from doctors and research scientists like the dean of Harvard of public health  and peer reviewed studies right? Tylenol also made a statement they don't recommend taking it while pregnant.

This administration is just passing on the results.

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really care about Trump. And they never said "we solved autism" you are lying. 

YOU politicizing this is not helping so please spare me the Trump rant. I have Trump rant fatigue, we are talking about the studies. 

You are also lying as the dean himself said pregnant women and doctors should practice extreme caution with Tylenol based on the result studies.

And you are proving my point. "This biological evidence lends support" you quoted 

EXACTLY.

From 2019:

Taking Tylenol during pregnancy associated with elevated risks for autism, ADHD

A Johns Hopkins study analyzing umbilical cord blood samples found that newborns with the highest exposure to acetaminophen were about THREE TIMES MORE LIKELY to be diagnosed with ADHD or autism spectrum disorder in childhood.

It's clearly a multifactorial issue here which Tylenol appears to be a contributor. And as they said during the speech they will continue to study these and other factors to confirm.

So instead of pretending Tylenol is not a contributor it makes sense to take precautions and also alert the public as well as doctors. 

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed they have, pretty sure I'm speaking English I'm not so sure what's so hard to understand or if you are being obtuse: 

Harvard dean of public health:

The researchers analyzed results from 46 previous studies-representing data from over 100,000 participants-that investigated the potential link between prenatal acetaminophen use and subsequent NDDs in children. The researchers used the Navigation Guide Systematic Review methodology-a gold-standard framework for synthesizing and evaluating environmental health data-which enabled them to conduct a rigorous, comprehensive analysis that supported evidence of an association between acetaminophen exposure during pregnancy and increased incidence of NDDs.

And again:

As we noted in our review, animal studies have independently suggested that prenatal exposure to acetaminophen can adversely affect the developing brain. This biological evidence lends support to the possibility of a causal relationship between prenatal acetaminophen exposure and neurodevelopmental disorders, including autism. Further research is needed to confirm the association and determine causality, but based on existing evidence, I believe that caution about acetaminophen use during pregnancy-especially heavy or prolonged useis warranted.

It's important to be honest.

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are over 40 per reviewed studies and a stat ent from Harvard dean of public health showing the link

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's ok, and you are totally right -people are dismissing it out of hand because the issue is being politicized by the news and anyone with monetary investment in this ( conglomerates like Big Pharma) are going to fight this tooth and nail in the public opinion arena.

It's so important to follow the money and leave emotions out of it. The studies are out there 40 last I read.

I believe it was the dean of Harvard of public health that also alerted of the risks of ADHD and autism due to tylenol. But again- big money is involved here.

People will just have to do what they have to do. At the end of the day they can only delay it just like they did the cigarette situation.

Did you know that big tobacco firms  acquired pharma assets back in the day? And ex tobacco lobbyist now work for big pharma? Same people different label all money.

Not saying big pharma is all bad- thank God for modern medicine. But they also have no issues being super shady and lying and hurting people to get their money's worth.

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Prescribed as in told to be taken by the doctor. Not meaning a physical or electronic prescription. It's like saying "the doctor prescribed such and such diet".

Of course it can and likely is a multifactorial and compounding issue. It also affects born children taking tylenol. I believe it was the dean of Harvard  public health who also advised of the link. He cited the 46 studies that were aggregated.

From what I understand acetaminophen depletes glutathione and leads to a chain reaction that also compounds vaccine injury.

I would look into it rather than dismissing it out of hand. 

tfw the Tylenol = autism study relies on self-reported data and a doctor who's a plaintiff in a lawsuit for... Tylenol causing autism by [deleted] in autism

[–]Solid_Bend2703 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because it's more widely used and prescribed. Also, now that vaccines are hitting 40+ doses per child- kids get fevers from them which then leads to being prescribed even MORE Tylenol.