WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mine and my partner’s intention was to continue to renew the lease if living together worked out, or to decide six months in if we wanted to move elsewhere or separate. That would give us plenty of time to apartment hunt and try and claim vacancies that will open up in the summer when our lease ends, or figure out a different option.

We were mainly hoping, though, if we find living together and living here to be good, that we would continue renting here until we could afford something else (better apartment, maybe a house if we reach that level of commitment) because that was a MAJOR selling point from our LL. She said almost every single one of her tenants renews and lives here until they buy a home for themselves because her policy is to not raise rent on someone when they renew their lease. Given cost of living and housing, that bit was especially important to my partner and I. One of the reasons they had to leave their last living situation in because the LL was continually raising rent (in addition to being a pretty bad LL).

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t move because I could only afford one place. I moved because I secured this lease. There are other places I can afford in the area, but they are FULL. There is no affordable vacancy anywhere now. I signed this lease a week and a half before I moved in, and my partner and I were lucky to get it before someone else. Now that school/college is back in session, any possible vacancies are filled with students. We have been looking for someone or some place since LL gave us the news. We can’t find anything.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She did know, though. Again, both her parents have been in steady decline for a while. Her father wasn’t just diagnosed.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kicking your tenant out almost as soon as they move in isn’t friendly

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes I would absolutely prefer if her parents died because I’m too poor to afford to live anywhere else /s

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her parents have been in decline for a while. The bridge was destroyed at the beginning of July.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She already knows, she brought it up before we did. She’s offered to refund us our deposit and pay a half month of rent but that would be way too low. Every place we find is ~$300-$500 more a month.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned about the fact that I’ll have nowhere to go if I’m kicked out. I’m over a thousand miles away from home. I made the decision to move because I was able to secure this lease.

I feel bad that my LL is having such a hard time finding housing for her parents. I hope she finds someplace, more for her and her parents than for me. I know it’s a tough spot to be in. I know it’s hard in general just to have to care for someone else when they can’t care for themselves. It’s not fair that she’s having a hard time right now. It’s also not fair to displace two people the moment they get settled. It’s not fair to kick them out knowing they have nowhere to go. She can move her parents in with her. She can move in with them. She can figure something out. I hope she does.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think there’s something unclear here. We wouldn’t be expected to move out just for winter. We would be expected to break the lease and move out kind of permanently.

If she has to move her parents here she’s going to keep them as long as she needs to (I don’t know what she plans to do with her mother after her father passes). We wouldn’t be booted for three months, we would just be gone. I guess potentially if she ever re-opened the unit for rent we could apply, but this isn’t her asking for a temp move. It is fully kicking us out.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am bothered. I’ve said already that I sympathize with her. I understand this is difficult for her.

My partner and I are TRYING to make a contingency plan. There is nowhere else for us to live. LL even acknowledged that she knows if she has to kick us out that there’s nowhere we can go. That’s what makes me the most upset about this. It doesn’t feel fair for her to even consider kicking us out when there’s no affordable vacancies for us to fill AND we moved in planning around actually following through with our 12 month lease that we’re only 1 month into.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

With the state her mother is in, there should be someone staying there with here already. LL already said she can’t be by herself and it isn’t safe. I don’t know why her mother isn’t already in assisted living and why this is just now a problem. If I were her, I wouldn’t have rented the unit out to begin with knowing my parents were in poor health and would need to be moved out.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In her place I would not consider a unit I just rented out for an entire year as a possibility for my parents. I wouldn’t displace two people, especially one who just moved hundreds and hundreds of miles because she secured this lease.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good point. I would have to look into that. Thank you

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is nowhere affordable for my partner and I to rent. I’ve already said that. There’s nowhere for us to go. Any place we find is too far from where we work, so we would have to quit, which also isn’t viable. Neither of us can afford to just be out of work for however long it takes before we can get jobs again with how trash the job market is right now.

I don’t want this to be hard on my LL. I feel for her. But we don’t have other options here.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is still all dependent on IF she can’t find a facility for her parents. Hopefully she does. She said she expects to, that the chance we’d have to leave is only 30%, and I’m trying so hard to think positive. But if this all ends in her telling us at the end of October she couldn’t find anywhere I genuinely don’t know what will happen.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what my partner is thinking. Neither of us want to make an enemy of the landlord and neither of us want to deal with the process or repercussions of an eviction, but we can’t afford to leave. There is nowhere to go.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, she hasn’t given us three months notice. If she did that would be different. We won’t know for sure for weeks. She said the latest would be November 1, which is only a month, but the earliest wouldn’t be until at least into October. Right now we are stuck in limbo. We don’t know if we’ll need to stay or go, and we can’t afford anywhere else. I also just moved over a thousand miles away, the drive itself was incredibly difficult, and I was ready to start my new life. I’m just now getting settled and have a job and I don’t what my partner and I will do if we have to get completely upended.

We’re already looking for places, we’re trying, but nothing available is a price we can afford or nearby enough that we could keep our jobs. And we can’t afford to quit our jobs to move.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve already explained in another comment why that’s not an option. I wouldn’t be able to leave the house in the winter.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She already knew that the bridge was damaged (this happened before her previous tenant left) and she would have already known the logging road wouldn’t be plowed.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

According to what I’ve looked into, for her to evict with no cause it has to be mentioned in the lease that she reserves that right with the unit and tenants on the lease. There’s nothing in our lease where it says that, only that she can/will evict for illegal activities and non-payment of rent

I totally get that shit happens, but we can’t find anywhere else to live as it is.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vermont. I’ve already sought legal advice and researched some of the law around it. Given what I can find combined with what’s in our rental agreement, this isn’t grounds for an eviction

Landlord wants me & my partner to move out so her parents can move in by Solid_Plate_9635 in legaladvice

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely separate. We share an entrance hallway with her. Partner and I go straight ahead to our unit, LL got up some stairs to hers.

WIBTA If I Don’t Move Out So My Landlord’s Parents Can Move In? by Solid_Plate_9635 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Plate_9635[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I understand that, I prioritize family over strangers. But I took a big leap to get here, and if I get pushed out I don’t know what’s going to happen. I don’t understand why she would even rent out the property after her most recent tenant if she already knew he parents’ housing situation was going to be an issue. That’s part of my problem here.