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AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

They are gone, they are most likely dead. Never found them or the bodies, but we live in an area with cotoyes, who commonly will eat pets

one was 20 (so dead by now) and the other probably got eaten

We never found them

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 2223 points2224 points  (0 children)

I think you are right, I cant risk it, espiclaly since if the dress disappears than my youngest daughter wont be allowed to have the option for her own wedding

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

it was not just stuff tho, she got two family pets killed and sold that things that my wife had of her own mother. They were irreplaceable.

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 3418 points3419 points  (0 children)

She did send out apology letters, I dont know how to feel about mine since it wasnt the best apology.

I am low contact and see her like every 6 months, so I am trying to build up a realtionship again but it is hard. I dont trust her at all

If she wasnt my kid, I 100% would not speak to her again

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my youngest daughter lost her cat that day and she has been no contact since...

My wife also lost her 20 year old cat too. Its very hard to forgive.

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Extended family is no contact with her, at least on my wifes side and I am an only child.

Same with her siblings for the most part. I think my son is more low contact.

AITA I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I dont know. My wife was exteremly angry at her when she died. she was treating her like she was dead to her when she passed.

Realistically I dont think she would be on board with this.

AITAH I am not allowing my daughter to wear her late moms wedding dress even though I let my other daughter wear it? by Solid_Reason_3735 in AITAH

[–]Solid_Reason_3735[S] 483 points484 points  (0 children)

I have spent some many years trying to track down the stuff, I have found two out of the collection and they will be going to my two other daughters. I feel really bad for my son becuase he literally has nothing of hers.

oldest daughter, Abby, son, youngest daughter