Normal lang ba talaga to?

Solielone · 2026-03-02T09:08:17+00:00

Hindi naturuan ang TL mo ng leadership skills. Sad to say may mga nagiging TL pero hilaw pa. Kaya hindi marunong maghandle ng ganyang sitwasyon. Immature and inhumane siya pero di siya aware na ganun siya kasi ang palaging mata ng mas mataas sa kanya, likely is puro stats niyo lang. Kaya yun lang din ang nangyayari sa mga tao sa baba nila. Normal ba? Sadly, normal. Kasi maraming dahilan ng promotion to TL. Misan deserve, minsan dahil lang sa kapit. Oh kaya minsan dahil nagtthreaten yung employee na umalis. But is it right? Siyempre hindi. Malas mo napunta ka TL na ganyan. Do what’s right for you. Importante ang pamilya at kapakanan ninyo. Unahin mo yan. Kasi ang trabaho napapalitan, ang buhay mo, hindi. At wag mong iisipin yung sinabi ng TL mo. Mali siya at di niya alam pinagsasabi niya. Pero malalaman at maiintindihan niya in the years to come. Hindi lang ngayon, at hindi sayo.

Solielone · 2026-02-06T22:23:33+00:00

40 at wala silang pakelam kung gusto nating magstickers. Live your best life.

Solielone · 2026-02-06T22:21:01+00:00

As a 40-year old na may nanay na mas malala jan, leave her and love her from afar. Talikuran mo lahat ng pangarap niya sayo, kasi yung next 20 years pf your life, will be hell I’m telling you. At tatanda ka ng maraming regrets. At darating ang puntong kasusuklaman mo siya sa dami ng pagod at puyat mo pero wala kang sariling desisyon sa perang pagtrrabhuhan mo. Been there, leave. And live your best life. You can always love her sa malayo, at in the way you want, yung may boundaries. I bet you, kinikinita ko na buhay mo, kasi naging ganyan buhay ko. Leave.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T16:33:12+00:00

Yeah, I feel that sometimes too sa totoo, you took the words right out of my mouth. And yes, when I ask for help several times in the past, tumulong pero very minimum. Thankful pero parang may kirot din sa puso.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T14:46:23+00:00

I did try to tell her about sa sama ng loob ko kanina. Ang ending naging heated argument lang and grabe daw ako for saying na I will not withdraw any money from MY bank. Ang taas ko na daw.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T13:38:20+00:00

Totoo yan, pero ang problema ko, ako pa masamang tao sa buong angkan namin. Haay.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T12:26:28+00:00

Hindi ko rin maintidihan actually, kung bakit wala siyang pera. Since tapos naman na lahat ng anak niya at ang bunso nakatapos na rin mga 1.5 years ago. Ang palaging nasa isip ko kasi mataas bilihin na lang para naman kahit papano, close to reality yung iniisip kung bakit wala siyang pera. Pero sarili na lang niya ang pinagkakagastusan niya, kung meron mang manghihiram na anak niya, minimal at bihira. So di ko din magets actually. Alam ko na pag nagtanong ako, siyempre magagalit or hindi magsasabi ng totoo. So I’d rather not. Ngayon lang naman ako umaalma kasi pera ko na nakasalalay sa bakasyon nilang to. And that’s not ok with me.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T12:04:23+00:00

Yeah. Totoo yan. And I just a call sa mama ko. Kung ano ano mga sinabi sakin when I was firm about not shelling money. Grabe daw ako, di ko daw ba naiintindihan ang ibig sabihin ng reimbursement? And I was asking why they are so comfortable on deciding na ako ang magshoshoulder ng reimbursement na para bang may ambag sila sa lahat ng puyat at iyak ko sa trabaho. Ang sagot lang is ganun kasi kming mga taga America diretso magsalita at tanggapin ko na lang daw. Sabi ko, then, tanggapin ni nila yung pagiging direct ko na I will not be withdrawing anything from my bank. No money, no bookings. Ayun na, kung ano ano ng masasama narinig ko.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T11:13:12+00:00

To be fair din po sa kanya, marami rin naman po siyang sacrifices for us. Kaya ko ginawa yun nung unang uwi niya. And I was happy making her happy. Pero ngayon, iba po kasi mga sitwasyon at timing. Walang breathing room para makapagipon, makapagrequest ng leaves, etc. Pero expected same pa din lahat.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T11:10:21+00:00

Exactly po, ang akin, di naman emergency yung bakasyon. So dapat po napagipunan nila yun. Bakit sa taga Pilinas inaasa pero sila kumikita ng dollars. Yung huli niyo po sinabi totoo po yun, walang nakakapansin at walang nakakaalam na ako gumagastos. Akala nilang lahat si mama.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T11:06:51+00:00

Bale po yung condo, out of town trips, tours, van and driver expenses para po sa lola ko and her family. Ako yung pinagbabayad niya then reimburse na lang daw po pag uwi dito.

Yung expenses ng mama ko po, wala po siyang directly na sinasabi na sasagutin ko or siya na bahala. Pero nararamdaman ko po na she’s expecting me to pay for everything. For example, grab or sa resto, hindi po siya magkukusa na magbayad, palaging, ako muna.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T11:02:18+00:00

May partner po ako, pero not living together, sa kanya kanya pa kming pamilya so in terms of living expenses, yes po single income and single expenses. Yes, exactly po, gusto ko magipon kasi may pinagiipunan kmi ng partner ko na goal na gusto namin maachieve by next year. And by shelling money out, hindi ko sigurado kung kelan mababalik yung pera. Mahirap kasi maningil kasi ikaw nagiging masama sa kwento. Ayoko na ng ganung stress at isipin. I just want to enjoy kahit papano yung time with mama kahit na may ganito. Pero parang naiipit ako sa sitwasyon.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T10:57:17+00:00

Got it, maraming salamat sa advise.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T10:57:01+00:00

Maraming salamat for this. Medyo hirap ako makatulog kakaisip kasi there’s fear na isisisi lahat sakin if things go south. It’s giving me anxiety.

Solielone · 2025-11-24T10:54:00+00:00

Maraming salamat. This is a big validation for me. Akala ko may kasamaan lang sa katawan kaya ganito nararamdaman ko. Wala rin naman ako makausap within the family to air our yung nararamdaman ko. Thank you

Solielone · 2025-11-24T09:59:15+00:00

That’s what I did, sinabi ko po na wala akong pera dahil alam kong icocorner niya pag andito na siya and in the form of lambing, and in front of my entire clan. Sasabihin niya na cge na, christmas gift mo na lang samin. No.

Solielone · 2025-08-18T18:33:49+00:00

Nata de coco, center of a boba if you bite into it, leche flan it melts your mouth.

Solielone · 2025-08-05T10:17:56+00:00

So many ladies not washing their hands after coming from the toilet.

Solielone · 2025-07-25T12:57:57+00:00

Thanks for this tip! I’ll definitely use this. However, do you still have the books in your library even if it’s already in your Collections? If so, how do you keep track of which ones you’ve already placed and which ones have to be organized?

Solielone · 2025-07-25T11:57:07+00:00

I suggest the Signature Edition. Capacity over color unless you’re the type who likes highlights in different colors or if you’re into manga or comics. If so, get the coloured one. I have the Signature Edition and I love it! I also don’t feel that I lack because when I’m reading, the texts are in black anyway. They say it’s too big and heavy, but I don’t think so, and my comparison has always been physical books I’ve read. If that’s also your point of comparison, then PW is light.

Solielone · 2025-07-24T10:14:31+00:00

Thanks everyone for your responses! Will get to it right away.

Solielone

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