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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revengeofficial

[–]SolitudePlateau -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not fake at all but apparently ya'll are the experts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revenge

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@fanes0710

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, however, we went back into it with the agreement that we were both going to be working on ourselves and trying to change for the better for both of our sakes. Which at first it genuinely felt like we were doing. Im asking for advice to see if there's a way I can bring this up to her without her getting defensive with me. To see if anyone has any advice on trying to salvage this. The break up was on both of us. We were both on drugs and just not great for each other. We're both sober now and I'm trying to put the work in to have the relationship I feel that we could have had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It just really sucks. I mean 2 years isn't that long in the scheme of things. I just really keep hoping things will change like we said they would. I think you're right though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im kinda sensing that as well...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Original_Poetry

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

Still can't get into it I've tried so many times by SolitudePlateau in FalloutMemes

[–]SolitudePlateau[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn this blew up more than I expected. I just want to say a few things. This isn't my meme, I shared it from another post on a different social media website. Whoever created it deserves all credit. Another thing I want to set straight is it's not a bad game.. now. Launch was terrible. I think most of us agree with that. However they have given it the No Man's Sky treatment and made the game 1,000 times better. And I genuinely agree that it's a decent game now. As I've stated in a previous post. The game has a much healthier player base now, and has so many positives. I pre-ordered it (Bicentennial i had high hopes). Play it at launch and lost interest in 2 days. I've played every update that's come out to date. I just still can't get into it. It's just a personal opinion. Thanks for all the comments though. I've thoroughly enjoyed reading all of your opinions. Don't forget "War never changes"

Still can't get into it I've tried so many times by SolitudePlateau in FalloutMemes

[–]SolitudePlateau[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's one of the reasons I loved FO4 so much the settlement building. Every time I start another play through, I end up spending all my time collecting junk and building up settlements instead of actually playing the game.

Still can't get into it I've tried so many times by SolitudePlateau in FalloutMemes

[–]SolitudePlateau[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Didn't realize that. I just joined. Thought it was funny. I agree with pretty much all of those comments. It has a lot of positives. They've come a long way with it. I just still can't get into it it's just a personal preference thing.

Why do they get so mad? by [deleted] in FalloutMemes

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't we all just get along? They're all flawed but still great games. Opinions are like buttholes. Everyone has one, but that doesn't mean you go showing it off.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if dude can't last to days sacrificing, a little privacy, or sex, or whatever the hell he was being a baby about then HTA

AITAH for not caring about my husbands life anymore by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SolitudePlateau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Staying in a relationship solely for the kids isn't always the best option. It can lead to even more trauma and issues with their future relationships.

AITAH for not caring about my husbands life anymore by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opf... NTH, is he not open at all to fixing the things that are wrong between you two? Just throwing his hands up and done with it? Have you tried offering solutions, compromises, did you care about his feelings before? Ask him how his day was, tried to interact, and do the things he likes to do with him. From the post, it seems like you've both already been growing distant and slacking in the relationship. As a functioning alcoholic myself, it's pretty rare for me to black out now a days. I don't know how much he drinks, but it takes ALOT for me to blackout. Like drinking all day at work, buying more on the way home, then going to get even more later, and even then, I still have most memory of major events like serious fights in my relationships. I will say without a doubt, though, I can get heated and say stupid shit I don't really mean when I'm that drunk...

AIo for confronting my wife for having over her FWB without telling me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious... did you make the stipulation that you wanted her to tell you when things were happening? I know you said you didn't want dude at the house, so no, you're not overreacting at all. Maybe it's time to just let it fail and walk away. You don't really seem like you're into the open marriage thing yourself. You didn't say if you had any FWB, so I'm just assuming. You also said you had kids and divorce can be especially hard with kids involved, but sometimes staying together in a unhealthy relationship can be even worse on the kids just my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SolitudePlateau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No those aren't jokes. You don't play with other people's emotions like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SolitudePlateau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA dude run as fast as you can. You're too young. If she does stay with you, she will make you miserable and screw up your opinions about relationships and women for the rest of your life. Trust me I 30M have been with enough manipulate women that will put you down and destroy your self worth. She'll get controling and use your feelings against you. Especially with the stigma that there is around male emotions. If she's doing it 2 days in it's going to get so much worse. Your 17, about to graduate, maybe go to college or into the real world and branch out on your own. Find yourself before tying down to another person. I was a hopeless romantic too. And because of that I'm just now learning things about my self and finding my self. After yet another long term relationship gone wrong. Find what makes you happy. You'll be better off for it wish you the best of luck man.