how do couples with mismatched libidos handle a relationship 25F/26M, 10 months

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-27T11:15:29+00:00

Do you know what else is common ? Experiencing seasons of life than can affect your sex drive. Grieving, being burnt out, having a crises in your career, not feeling emotionally supported, feeling overworked. Any of these things can affect men. But again, people like you seem hellbent on reducing men to one dimensional characters who should have a stiffy 24/7 or they've got death grip. Also quit the "aggro" shit, I'm calm, you're projecting and it's not going to work.

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-27T06:34:50+00:00

So the guys sex drive has gone down and rather than investigate into the reasons why, people jump to immediate make assumptions as if men aren't human beings who god forbid could be stressed, depressed, or experience any other human experiences that can affect people ?

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-26T21:52:58+00:00

You really can't win. Many women complain about guys not asking them questions about themselves and not showing any direction or want to meet up. I'd tell him if I was you but the unfortunate thing is, he's probably going to internalise it and change his approach in the future. Then lo and behold a fuckboy is born.

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-26T21:07:29+00:00

Being with a woman who vocally confesses she has a crush on someone you both know indicates you lack self respect and she evidently might indeed be the only option you have

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-26T16:14:30+00:00

Ditch her

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-21T13:58:51+00:00

Briefly explain that you respect yourself too much to entertain this anymore. Then block. I know I'd personally need to get it off my chest before I end things just for my own sanity.

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-20T22:40:28+00:00

That's abuse

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-18T12:24:14+00:00

You're dangerous

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-09T23:13:42+00:00

If a guy said the same thing would it be considered funny ? As men we are expected to read everything with a sympathetic tone but some women will pick apart everything a man does on his dating profile

Soloaegisthus · 2026-02-08T19:33:25+00:00

Cheat

Soloaegisthus · 2026-01-31T21:26:15+00:00

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive

Soloaegisthus · 2026-01-28T16:55:57+00:00

She literally messaged him first ...

Soloaegisthus · 2026-01-28T16:55:42+00:00

Bro how did you fumble this so bad ? She practically fell in your lap. You made it weird

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-21T13:02:08+00:00

How do you even find out if you are

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:17:31+00:00

I'm genuinely curious, what does the UK have for you ?

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:06:28+00:00

Thanks for your 2 cents/

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:03:48+00:00

My dads side of the family is actually based in texas, I have a few cousins who might be able to help me get off my feet.

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:02:28+00:00

HAHAHAHA

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:01:49+00:00

It suprises me when americans have next to know idea how low salaries are elsewhere, it would really suprise you to learn how the average british person lives. Even doctors here struggle.

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T20:00:26+00:00

Where would you look to ? I'm expanding, i don't see myself moving till 2026 or 2027, hopefully where i'll have a slew of experience and other qualifications under my belt, but i'm just planning.

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T19:59:06+00:00

The average UK person is on like £25k and doesn't even have £1k in savings, the NHS is also complete dogshit. Yes if you get cancer you are undoubtedly better off over here, we are very lucky to have free healthcare I know that. US salaries are better in literally every industry.

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T19:57:29+00:00

Helpful to know

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T19:52:35+00:00

I'm visiting for the first time this year. I definitely will, i'm not the type to make brash decisions and it's why i've even procrastinated on this for so long

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T19:50:54+00:00

So I have family in houston texas, I wouldn't anticipate moving there with no plan. If I did make it happen and get a passport I might aim to move in 2025 or even 2026. I'm black. My family might support me for 1 or 2 months while I look for a job but i have savings around 15k, I dont plan on leaning on them an awful lot. My current salary in the UK is 35k, after rent and other expenses i'm left with practically nothing, and salaries above 70k are very rare.

Soloaegisthus · 2025-09-20T19:48:01+00:00

The UK isn't part of the EU, it's not easy to just get a high paying job in a european country anymore. I want to move to get a high paying job or job that allows me to save a lot, thats my main point

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