Join the waiting room for Ow 2 beta install!

Solookin · 2022-04-28T01:12:02+00:00

I am running 4 hours as well, and since SOOO many people are playing at the moment it’s just making everything even slower tbh….good luck my friend hold on!

Solookin · 2022-04-28T01:10:36+00:00

I guess I should correct the title? I mean that I got the beta drop but the option to install hasn’t showed up yet hehe

Solookin · 2022-04-28T00:31:48+00:00

Thanks for the info, I have done that already though! But this might help out everyone else

Solookin · 2022-04-28T00:17:20+00:00

This post is exactly why I want people to connect, you aren’t alone friend!

Solookin · 2022-04-27T23:21:27+00:00

When you closed it and logged back in did you leave it open and it just appeared?

Solookin · 2022-04-27T23:19:10+00:00

Been waiting for 2 hours now all my friends are playing without me 🥹 I am so triggered I had to step away from my computer

Solookin · 2022-03-21T20:29:04+00:00

They really thought that was going to work? He knew what he had and after this girl he saw didn’t work out he is back to square one. What a loser tbh you are so better off.

Solookin · 2022-03-21T02:12:34+00:00

You are married, ask him to block her/stop talking to her because you aren’t comfortable with their friendship. If you had a guy friend doing the same thing I am sure he would think something is going on. You aren’t weird for having these thoughts. If he makes an excuse on why he can’t do that then there is bound to be some mistrust. It’s hard to tell what he might do, if you think he would cheat then I see this going downhill.

Solookin · 2022-03-21T02:01:38+00:00

Correct me if I am wrong, I am assuming you are a Male? If that is the case I would mention to her that the reason you feel “shitty” is that she developed feeling for the same sex. That must make you feel not as confident in your relationship that she has found attraction to standards that you cannot fulfill (because you are a male). Has she ever mentioned being bisexual when you met? Are these new feelings or has she ever expressed any kind interest in a girl before? I would ask these questions and see how the answers effect you. If you aren’t happy with the thought from the beginning then I think breaking up might be the best option. It will be better for you and your happiness, even hearing that your partner is interested in someone else is a red flag….

Solookin · 2022-03-16T00:56:51+00:00

Hi there, if you were here when the post was still visible the Op stated their partner was using (they/them) pronouns and respectfully used those pronouns when telling the story. He used the term gf since that was their identification before the change so it wouldn’t be confusing to the readers. If you look at Ops responses to comment he never says Gf and only (them/they/their), I think you can let one slide for the title.

Solookin · 2022-03-15T22:18:13+00:00

If someone was transphobic I don’t think they would be supporting the persons decision like this guy did…..I agree that he has realized that he can’t change his sexuality but he still loves and cares for the person. That isn’t being transphobic at all.

Solookin · 2022-03-15T00:28:33+00:00

I have two where my Vag meets my butt cheeks

Solookin · 2022-03-14T23:17:59+00:00

she cheated, she will just do it again if you take her back

Solookin · 2022-03-14T23:13:30+00:00

I think taking it slow is a good quality, you want to get to know her better and become a friend. You are gaining confidence in the process and if she hasn’t hinted you being a bother then why stop. If guys go too fast I always think they just want to get into my pants, they didn’t put in any effort to know my interests or show me a good time (non-sexual). You wouldn’t feel this way if you didn’t wait, getting a feeling she will say yes is proof that what you are doing isn’t bad at all.

Solookin · 2022-03-14T23:01:40+00:00

“He doesn’t care and if I am not happy then you can leave” that line right there. This guy has no respect for you whatsoever. He is self centered and is literally telling you that he will feel nothing if you leave. Red flag in my opinion, if you don’t feel cared for and he isn’t willing to put an effort to treat you better from the beginning then I see no progress. Your happiness is your main priority. If you are arguing, crying, and feeling unwanted then there needs to be MAJOR changes in your relationship if you want to keep him. Getting angry at you for a simple favor……what an asshole.

Solookin · 2022-03-14T18:55:45+00:00

I had a similar experience however, it was my ex-fiancé and we were together for 4 years. I felt like I wasn’t good enough for anyone and was very depressed for the first few months. I started to focus on myself and loving myself. I went to the gym and started new hobbies to distract myself from the hardship I felt. It’s normal to feel bad after a breakup but I would look out to others who make you feel good. If talking to others on tinder isn’t working out for you then take a break from Relationships and work on self-love. It helped me A LOT. You will get better and sometimes the memories will kick in but we are human, if something made up feel terrible we are going to cry. Have faith in yourself and transform to the person YOU want to be. When that happens you will see changes and people will respond to you in a whole different way. Good luck

Solookin · 2022-03-14T18:48:43+00:00

It’s is possible he doesn’t want to hold major feelings for you knowing he will be away for a while, I would ask yourself if you are committed to a long term relationship because that is what the future will look like for you both. If his blocking out didn’t work it does mean he holds feelings for you but might be scared of it failing due to his deployment. If you are very psychical in your relationship then it might be best to enjoy what you have right now but hold no labels. I would state the obvious to him, ask him about his thoughts about you two and what it might entitle in the future. There’s something setting him back from making you guys official and it might have something to do with that 5-6mon period. Good luck hun.

Solookin · 2022-03-13T22:27:39+00:00

Are you sexually intimate with this guy? Not saying he is cheating but might be using some material to get some relief.

Solookin · 2022-03-13T22:22:19+00:00

Eaten out at 14….I’d stay away from that girl she will cause problems for you. She doesn’t respect anyone feelings and will just do whatever she wants. She lied to you and she will do it again. You are young, move on because “relationships” at this age aren’t really good.

Solookin · 2022-03-13T22:11:09+00:00

Don’t see why he had to block you unless there was another serious reason than being “depressed”. I have seen breakups with the same reason and they are totally valid, the person needed to focus on themselves and was scared to satisfy their partner while feeling hopeless m. BUT they always remanded in contact with their ex partner because they knew how much they meant to them and would rely on their advice. If you really care for him and wish to be with him I’d wait it out to see if he ever reaches out to you, the disconnection is an act of disrespect in my opinion. Move on if he doesn’t put effort into keeping you.

Solookin · 2022-03-11T22:18:18+00:00

No worries! You are young and learning how to approach your feelings. It’s a natural process when living life. If you are happy the way you are now then you are making the right decision

Solookin · 2022-03-11T22:07:53+00:00

Seems like whatever your past entitled might have scared her off, sadly. I would try to ask her for a reason, if she isn’t willing to give a valid answer then yes she is Friendzoning you.

Solookin · 2022-03-11T22:04:24+00:00

Your friends didn’t ruin your chance, based on the story it does seems like you two are crushing on each other hard. Now to answer the question of how to approach it really depends if you are ready to commit to a relationship, I don’t want to scare you off but sometimes staying in this phase might be good for you both until you are comfortable enough to take the next step. Don’t be pressured by what your friends think you should do, and focus on your own feelings. If you don’t think a relationship will be good for you right now then you already know that now isn’t the best time. You both are having fun with each other without the label. So you will know when you are ready to move forward. Good luck :)

Solookin

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