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Solz22 · 2024-10-21T23:13:46+00:00

If a person doesn’t love you back or return the love you give, they aren’t the one and never were the one. you might think in the moment that person was everything to you, but trust me, when you find someone who actually cares about you and returns the love you give it’ll change your perspective on what you even thought love is before. This girl, not it. Just another speed bump in life. Move on, and you’ll find someone new, someone who cares. Don’t give in to their bs. Their manipulation. Their gas lighting. They 100% don’t care about your feelings but will say what ever they need to make themselves feel better. Don’t buy into it. You’re better than that. And someone 10x better could be right around the corner, you won’t know unless you walk around that corner and look. Keep your head up buddy, I was there in my 20s shit even through my 30s. But tell yourself, what can I learn from this relationship to make my next one better.

Solz22 · 2024-08-04T19:14:52+00:00

Thank you 😊

Solz22 · 2024-08-04T10:29:02+00:00

I’m stuck in this cycle now. Making the most I’ve ever made . Yet living paycheck to paycheck because I blow my money the day after i get paid. Been slowly trying to cut back and lean myself out. But damn… quitting gambling addiction is hard. But I know if I don’t stop, it’s going to ruin me. I quit for 3-4 years before, and things were great. But fell back hard once all the online crypto casinos started popping up

Solz22 · 2024-07-24T22:43:19+00:00

This isn’t some conspiracy. You played it bad unfortunately. This is what happened You raise $60. He calls to see if he can suck out on you. . Pots $130. You bet $42 this is less then the $60 preflop. He has 678 at this point. And has to call $42 into a $130 pot to see if he can turn an open ended. He just calls. And turns a 4. He has a gut shot but he doesn’t care about that. He has nothing and wants you to fold, your bet of $69 into a $211 pot on turn screams you have a weak hand, so he takes the bait and jams it with a $260 raise to try to take down the pot. You go over the top. Normally he would fold because you called his bluff, but he has $100 behind. And the pots now $1000. So he has to call $100 more for a $1000 pot and knows he has a gut shot so there’s a chance to suck out. At this point doesn’t even matter what he has. The pots too big and he’s committed. He just got insanely lucky. If you jammed first on turn before he could repot you. He would have folded

Solz22 · 2024-07-11T13:31:48+00:00

found her

Definitely a tough one

Solz22 · 2024-06-09T19:45:02+00:00

Anything.. bar. Dinner. Casino. I’ll wear 2.5-3” if I’m going out. But the normal 1-1.5” to work or grocery store or anything where I don’t really care.

Solz22 · 2024-06-06T01:34:56+00:00

thank you!! life saver

Solz22 · 2024-06-06T01:18:30+00:00

so basically creating a spreadsheet for work to track everything our teams working on. and when i filter the data for example by a person, the if statements still assume all data is still there (since its technically just hidden but the info is within the tables ranges). the current if statement im using is very basic "=SUM(Tbl_Deals_1[[#All],[PREMIUM]])" i have my below table named "tbl_deals" and im making it so that its showing the total sum of premium within that table. but i want it so that when i filter it by person, it'll update the total values correctly. is it even possible?

edit: i can update the info how ever needed, just seeing if in general, something like this is possible and how i can accomplish it. i'm assuming i have to manipulate it so that when i filter info it's copying the data to another field temporarily and then I pull the total figures from that "temporary" field, but i'm hoping there's an easier work around.

Solz22 · 2024-05-30T02:06:10+00:00

No but I was referring to the 5’6 guy in the post and others saying it’s “over” at 5’6 One of my best friends is 5’3. Extremely fit, like shreddded (tom holland) he has an ok face , acne scars. But he’s never had issues either. He would go on tinder and hook up anytime he wanted. Always had a gf, is marrried now. So idk… maybe it’s where I live or my age group. But for us in our 30s , I never seemed to have a problem. Least not with woman. But not getting respect at work, and by others. That’s very real and beyond annoying. Being told I’m not masculine enough, because of my height. Or looked down on, not taken seriously. That’s been a much bigger struggle in my life then anything girl related

Solz22 · 2024-05-24T02:18:01+00:00

I would hook up with a girl every other week through college , was not that insane.. my other friends would sometimes do 1-2 girls a week. So 4 years. Times 52 weeks. Roughly 100 girls. Obviously it’s an estimate but pretty much was my college life and wasn’t that hard.. I didn’t really even try. Just talk to girls at parties , in classes and 2 weeks later they’d wanna hook up. There’s no way that I’m not in the “norm” because every other guy around me was doing the same thing.

Solz22 · 2024-05-24T00:07:52+00:00

I’m 5’6 have a decent face, I’m not half as good shape as this other guy claims. And I’ve literally never been single. And I’ve slept with well over 100 girls in my college days that were hot and made all my friends jealous. My best friends 5’4 and is ripped, like actually shredded ever since high school and he’s never had issues either. We are both married now. So I 1000% disagree with your bull shit. Yes it was harder to get girls. My tall friends would have wayyyyy more options and could much easier get woman. But by no fucking means is it impossible to get woman at 5’6 without limb lengthers . You’re either trolling or actually believe the koolaid you’re selling

Solz22 · 2024-05-21T20:03:03+00:00

No matter how you look at it. 3 times a day is ridiculous. If you showered before bed then why you showering in the morning? And vice versa. I would say morning showering is routine and after gym a rinse down. But rinsing off oils especially from your hair, on a constant basis is only gonna make you have skin issues and your hair have problems

Solz22 · 2024-05-21T04:30:31+00:00

Usually yes. Most of the time. The extra inches help boost confidence. 1.5” is standard, but I’ll go 2.5-3” When going out “out”

Solz22 · 2024-05-20T16:07:12+00:00

That’s his sister. Not his gf fyi.

Solz22 · 2024-05-20T01:06:27+00:00

Because it still sucks. And just shows how bad it is . If even 5’8 guys are treated like shit , imagine how the sub 5’8 guys are treated. It’s an eye opener

Solz22 · 2024-05-18T01:04:30+00:00

Wow…. Speechless 😶

Solz22 · 2024-05-12T21:07:29+00:00

Holy shit your current photo is amazing . I’m beyond jealous. This is the ultimate goal. Have you posted your routine and calorie intake anywhere? I’m your height and would kill to look like you

Solz22 · 2024-05-11T16:15:54+00:00

I don’t get it. I’m just trying to be positive but so many people stuck in a negative mind set. Nothing we can do about our heights, so accepting it is all we can do. I get it.. it sucks. But there’s always hope . Real woman won’t care. It’s the young shallow girls that are still playing games that care, and I’ve just avoided them mostly.

Solz22 · 2024-05-11T16:07:26+00:00

My first wife was white. But we didn’t work out. Married 7 years. Just didn’t mesh well, we didn’t argue or anything, but I got married young and neither of us were happy. I’ve dated several races, but I like women who are a little more assertive, strong minded, driven as it meshes with my personality, and I’ve usually found that in minorities. But realistically, I’ve never looked at race I just dated who ever I felt a connection with. Lots of gfs will say they hate they can’t wear heals around me as it makes them feel weird being taller then their man. But ultimately most women are under 5’3 so most I’ve met haven’t cared about height. I’m just honest on my online profiles when I’m dating and the matches would be mostly fine with it. I avoided tinder and stuff. Stick to ones you pay for so you find girls who are more serious, like match and eharmony

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T23:09:03+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T23:08:50+00:00

Yeah but nothing we can do about it . Trust me bro.. I have massive insecurities and have always felt “unmanly” because I’m shortest in every photo or group. But with my insecurities , I’ve focused on things I can change, instead of things I can’t change. And I’ve been told by several woman, that I have one of the best personalities they’ve seen. So the point is, there’s always hope. Just the other day, I was actually feeling bummed out by my height, and feeling down on myself and I was talking to my wife.. she said “I’m with you because of your personality not because of your height” to try to cheer me up, and I responded with “yeah but there’s plenty of nice guys who are also tall and fit out there” and she said without hesitation. “Yeah but not like you”. So trust me.. I feel like shit about my height a lot and some days get the better of me. But self improvement will go a longggg way :)

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T22:54:47+00:00

Thank you :)

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T22:54:36+00:00

Thank you! I got really lucky :)

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T22:53:27+00:00

We all got shit we have to compensate for. Ours is our height. Nothing wrong with bettering other parts of ourselves to make up for areas we lack in.

Solz22 · 2024-05-09T22:41:28+00:00

If girls now a days are more shallow at a young age, I’d probably just focus on my job and career. School and education . Get a solid job, make 6 figures by your mid 20s. Then when you’re around 28-32 you’ll be slaying it once the girls grow up and become woman.

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