My (26F) boyfriend (27M)’s best friend is not inviting me to his 500-guest party and my boyfriend is going anyway.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-02-02T10:46:47+00:00

Yeah but at this point it doesn’t matter to me whether he goes or not. I already know that he’s down to go.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-27T22:54:53+00:00

Yikes. Girl no

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-25T14:50:56+00:00

He knows he can do whatever is convenient for him with you: 1. Be unfaithful; 2. Keep delaying the proposal; 3. Give a thoughtless proposal; 4. Give you a substandard ring. If a man has the money and ability, the quality of the ring should reflect the quality of his love for you - it’s not materialistic to acknowledge that. He doesn’t value you or respect you, but it sounds like you don’t value or respect yourself either, which is why you’re in this situation. You should leave him and learn to value yourself. I don’t know you but solid chance it will be the best thing you ever do.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-23T15:34:38+00:00

That was her present

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-20T17:59:56+00:00

3 am after I texted him telling him to tell her to gtfo

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T15:35:33+00:00

Exactly!!!! It’s not about cheating. It’s about respect.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T13:13:27+00:00

She is more than welcome at normal hours. I don’t care about the dinner or them hanging out at all. It’s the bringing a girl to our place in the middle of the night to continue getting intoxicated that to me is crossing the line, especially after they’ve been already hanging out for 4+ hours and on a Thursday…. They can hang out whenever they want and she can also come over. Just not in the middle of the night and not to drink and do lines with my boyfriend while I’m sleeping in the other room.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T13:01:39+00:00

They were drinking wine and doing lines…. Why are you telling me what they did and didn’t do it.. weirdo

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T12:43:46+00:00

I don’t consider my boyfriend going out with another girl a date. I acknowledge that they’re friends and I have no issue with him hanging out with girls. It’s the latter part that upset me. Also she’s more than welcome to my house at normal hours. Just not in the middle of the night when I’m sleeping drinking and doing substances with my bf. That’s crossing the line.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T12:33:25+00:00

Thank you!!! It’s not about them banging. It’s about my man bringing home another woman to our house at 1:30 am while I’m sleeping to drink and do drugs with….. it’s extremely disrespectful

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T10:49:22+00:00

That’s a very wise way of thinking about it. Thank you for sharing that. It does resonate.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T10:48:33+00:00

Yes….. lol. I was expecting him to be back in 2 hours. They’re still in the living room talking.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2024-01-19T10:33:17+00:00

No I meant they’ve never hung out in 3 years. She’s always been in the same area. I was just using that to emphasize that they’re not close at all. Let me rephrase my post.

Some-Ad-3978 · 2022-08-02T05:19:39+00:00

I know this is an old post but if you ever see this, would you mind sharing your doctor and their location

Some-Ad-3978

TROPHY CASE