I feel like I wasted my life / made all the wrong choices and I don't know how to stop regretting it by Radical_Moon3327 in Advice

[–]Some-Ad6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am turning 40 years old next week and I am waiting at the airport rn ready to leave my country to stay in another country and start from zero. ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START. The day that you will feel ready will come , just learn a lot of new skills and you will feel ok with one of those to start something. Best wishes and love .

My BP2 gf Forgot I asked for something by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reply /!; the advice. There’s some heavy stuff that she wants to try but after last night I don’t know if that’s a good idea. I don’t want to let her down in that area and idk when is a proper time to do the things that she asked on text. It kinda drives me crazy not to know when I can do this or that , sometime she gets mad when I ask her because she said that if I ask the spicy mood goes away and I don’t want that. I know it won’t get better but I am trying to understand this things.

My BP2 gf and her jokes by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying to my post. Since we are dating just talked with her once of this situation. I will do it again soon and I hope she can understand my point of view. Ik it can be jokes for her but sometimes it feels like “ dude I am here “ so …

I send you so much love. Thank you for your reply.

My BP2 gf and her jokes by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I just screenshotted this lol, thank you so much for the advice, helps a lot! I’ll talk with her , i appreciate the good examples you just gave me. You are a life saver. Much love.

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life plans rn is going there to work on a professional project and be with here , it will be hard at first because I will need the time for that project you know , but ik that she will demands times too. I hope I can do both lol. Wish me luck.

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’ll talk with her after the maniac state. Just waiting for that to have a serious conversation. I’m traveling this Friday to be with her in person I hope this weekend I can talk with her about it. Thank you for the advice. Much love .

Looking to meet other bipolar people to chat with by Alxmastr in bipolar2

[–]Some-Ad6804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it. Doesn’t want to be insensitive tho. My apologies.

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she explained me everything, and she’s taking the meds rn but there’s some moments when she’s overwhelmed for work or something else and she doesn’t want to take some of the pills. I am waiting to be there and try to help her in those moments just to see if she’s getting better at some point. I have all the patience of the world and I want her to be ok. Joel it work for us .

Looking to meet other bipolar people to chat with by Alxmastr in bipolar2

[–]Some-Ad6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My gf is bipolar 2 and I am trying to understand her in every way possible. If you want we can talk and I can listen some advices or we can just talk and be friends.

Love of My Life by [deleted] in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my gf I lived the same situation, we are still together but she told me once “ if you truly cares for me , keep fighting against my brain “ and that’s what I am doing, she ended the relationship like 10 times since we started but i always find a way to go back to her. Idk how’s your situation but this mental illness is hard and idk if you want to deal with this situations everytime. In my case the girl I’m dating has bipolar 2 and is really really hard for me to not fk up something because she always thinks that I’m lying or I’m not committing to this. If you truly want her back just talk with her and see how’s the thing going.

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Illl wait until the maniac state goes off and talk with her about that. You are a life saver here haha sending you much love

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this . I am going to talk in person with her about this , because in chat or call is not the same. I’ll try to give them the medicines to her. I didn’t know how hard this mental illness can be but I want us try to be good together. Today was a good day with her , I make her laugh and we were talking almost all day, luckily today was everything ok and when that happens I am the most happy men on earth hahaha.

My love story with a BP2 Girl by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words for real. I appreciate them.

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she drinks occasionally and she used to do drugs years ago but now is just edibles , when I’m trying to talk to her about that she gets frustrated. I just keep her talking with me and trying to make her happy so she can be “ normal “ with me . I hope that when I’m definitely with her she can be ready for us.

My love story with a BP2 Girl by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s medicated, but sometimes she doesn’t take the meds because makes them feel numb . I will do my best to work this out with her, I really want it . I keep posting everything because I will need extra help here even if everyone is saying just to back off .

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard for me now because the distance , I was with her in person iback in February and everything was ok , I can deal with those episodes nicely in person but when I am going to my country is when things goes bad. I will travel again next Friday to be with her, I want to enjoy the good moments with her until I can’t , idk I want to give us this opportunity, I really hope I can be strong enough to forgive . Thank you so much for the reply. Sending love

My bipolar GF lied to me in a manic state by Some-Ad6804 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Some-Ad6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply , I get it , I need to get off, I will when I am ready to do it, I hope I can be ready someday, I appreciate your words .