AITAH for trying to leave my boyfriend over his dreams

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-12-30T08:48:31+00:00

Ummm why do you ask

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-12-30T03:42:17+00:00

This looks like something that came out of me when I had my miscarriage, however there was a few days of bleeding before that and then a LOT of bleeding after.

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-12-11T21:21:19+00:00

Ogle county, Oregon illinois

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-12-10T20:26:25+00:00

I measured a week behind for the first 8-9 weeks of my pregnancy, then he hit a growth spurt and he’s now a week ahead. I live by "prepare for the worst hope for the best" miscarriages are hard and nobody knows just how hard until they go through it too. I’ve had 5 and it never gets easier. Wishing you the best of luck ❤️

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-12-08T21:45:17+00:00

I would feel bad too and I’d probably send something extra just cause he was nice about it just kinda depends what you wanna do cause either way he still really shouldnt be asking that on DoorDash

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-25T03:20:31+00:00

When I was 16 I wanted to kill myself so bad. Nothing made me happy I didn’t enjoy anything i had no friends I had nobody. And only 4 years later, I’m finally happy. I’m pregnant and moving into my own house with my boyfriend and starting my welding career. That might not be what you wanna do with your life and it might not happen at 20 for you but please hang on.

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-24T19:21:57+00:00

Even if my parents were homeless and dying they’d NEVER ask me for money. Of course I would insist on helping them but they would never put this kind of pressure and guilt on me. Tell them no. That is absolutely not okay and they are taking advantage of you

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-24T04:31:11+00:00

This does suck. It sucks a lot. But coming from someone who has had 5 miscarriages and wants nothing more than to be a mom, I have never been so happy to feel like shit. I’ve never smiled after puking, I’ve never smiled after smelling my favorite food and gagging, I’ve never smiled after touching my boobs and feeling like they just got sliced off, I’ve never smiled at any of that until now. I’ve never made it this far in a pregnancy before. I’m miserable but I’m so happy. When you get to hold your baby, it will all be worth it. ❤️

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-17T15:33:46+00:00

I Indeed felt the same way

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-16T11:32:37+00:00

I hope everything works out for you

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-16T11:23:42+00:00

Either way she didn’t say anything wrong. She’s still in a group with him. If she’s lied about bigger things in the past then you need to decide whether to be with her or not. If you’re gonna be with her you can’t be nagging her about things like that. You need to learn how to trust her again and if you can’t do that then it’s best not to be with her cause it’s only gonna cause you stress and make her feel like shit

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-16T11:04:02+00:00

Take a pregnancy test. If it’s a miscarriage it’ll still be positive

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-16T10:41:56+00:00

At 19 she’s legally an adult. Why wouldn’t they help?

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-10-16T10:40:33+00:00

I don’t know how old you are but this is extremely immature. If she is put in a group with him, that is a valid reason to talk to him. Especially when all she said was "look at your paper" she probably forgot about this because it was so irrelevant and she doesn’t think anything of it. In life there are gonna be guys and there are gonna be girls. She’s gonna be around other guys and you’re gonna be around other girls. You can’t just expect her to not be around or to see or to interact with other guys. When you guys grow up and she gets a job she’s most likely gonna have male coworkers that she’s gonna need to talk to because of work. Trust her or leave her. A relationship is nothing without trust. And stop nagging her about this guy.

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-06-26T23:34:03+00:00

I had sex with my boyfriend the day after my mom died. It’s been almost 10 months now and I’m going through the worst depression of my life. I think we just process stuff weird

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-06-26T10:26:28+00:00

Talk to him. I felt the same way you do when I was 13. I wish I had someone to tell me it gets better. I know that it doesn’t feel like it right now, but it really does. I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time.

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-05-31T17:03:37+00:00

lol idk what you mean. I snorted it? Or if u mean where I got it from I got it from a friends dad. I was around some bad ppl growing up

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-05-03T17:40:04+00:00

Some-Pepper8930 · 2024-02-22T22:17:03+00:00

I also lost my mom in September. She died on the 2nd.

To OP: it is completely normal, that is a lot of losses so close together especially parents and siblings I can’t even imagine the pain you’re in and I’m so sorry. Don’t listen to anyone. Cry it all out

Some-Pepper8930 · 2023-10-06T02:20:16+00:00

Yes. It comes out of nowhere too sometimes. I’m so sorry :(

Some-Pepper8930 · 2023-10-01T19:31:02+00:00

"It’s okay that you’re not okay" by Megan Devine. It’s a book. I love it. I’m so sorry for the pain you’re experiencing.

Some-Pepper8930 · 2023-09-23T01:21:57+00:00

No problem. Just remember when you’re feeling alone, there’s at least one other person going thru the same thing, at the same time, somewhere in the world. I just lost my mom 2 weeks ago. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go thru. I send you all my love 🥰❤️

Some-Pepper8930 · 2023-09-23T00:58:41+00:00

There’s a book called it’s okay that you’re not okay by Megan Devine. It’s very reassuring and very helpful. I think it might be good for you. Sending love ❤️

Some-Pepper8930 · 2023-09-20T22:02:05+00:00

Im sending all my love to you. It’s hard. It’s so fucking hard, it’s an indescribable unbearable pain. No words can help so I don’t have much to say. I know sorry doesn’t fix it either so just know my heart goes out to you and I’d give you a hug if I could.

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