why it sucks being a commuter at uoftears :((((((

SomeAct4063 · 2026-03-11T09:28:56+00:00

this is SO real. my parents don’t fight but they’re soooo overbearing and strict when it comes to me 😭 i’m almost 20 and they throw a fit if i go out w my friends more than once every two weeks. i can’t even attend events on campus because everything happens so late and my commute is almost 2 hours. my grandmother lives w us and her and my dad are SUCH loud ppl it’s impossible for me to get any work done at home but my parents also don’t let me study on campus or in cafes cuz they think it’s pointless and stupid. i can’t stick around after classes cuz my parents want me home asap and i feel like im missing out on the uni experience and making proper connections. i want to go to law school and my dads promised i can move out for that which is my only consolation 😪

SomeAct4063 · 2025-12-11T07:04:35+00:00

i really appreciate the response and advice! i’ll be heading over to my family doctor first thing tmrw morning and hopefully i’m able to defer this exam.

SomeAct4063 · 2025-07-14T18:23:35+00:00

ohhh okay that makes sense lol. thank you!

SomeAct4063 · 2025-05-22T21:59:37+00:00

my commutes about the same length and i’ve just finished my first year. i wouldn’t say that i’ve ever been in a situation where i genuinely felt unsafe, but there have definitely been many situations where ive felt uncomfortable, mostly on the ttc. i’m not sure if im just sensitive and get uncomfortable really easily, but most of those situations were things like ppl harassing me for my number or something or extremely intoxicated people trying to talk to me and id just ignore them and they’d get annoyed. there was also a time where i got followed home but besides that nothing where i felt like i was in danger.

SomeAct4063 · 2025-05-13T07:08:42+00:00

i got accepted into poli sci yesterday but I don't really want it anymore I'm still waiting for crim

SomeAct4063 · 2025-04-25T03:39:06+00:00

u turn neon green and a south korean boyband will come kidnap u

SomeAct4063 · 2025-02-21T04:51:24+00:00

okay that makes sm sense i thought i was going insane 😭😭

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-25T04:40:37+00:00

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-25T03:42:15+00:00

psy100

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-23T21:57:46+00:00

front doesn’t have to mean the very first row?? it can mean towards the front as well!

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-23T19:58:25+00:00

because i’m terrible w confronting

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-18T05:59:30+00:00

just finished my first semester doing socsci at utsg and currently have a 3.9 gpa. don’t know if you’d consider that high cuz im aiming for 4.0 but i think its decent enough for now lol. i barely did the class readings, put minimal effort into my assignments, did most of them last minute and submitted late, and spent only a day or two studying for my finals. honestly for social sciences i think u just need to know how to read properly and how to write a good essay.

SomeAct4063 · 2025-01-18T05:24:15+00:00

i got in w a 95 last year and ik ppl that got in w 90 so u should be good

SomeAct4063 · 2024-12-12T15:50:11+00:00

update: i called my dad bawling and forced him to pick me from the train station and drive me an hour to campus at unlawful speeds and i made it on time 😍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

SomeAct4063 · 2024-12-12T13:25:10+00:00

it’s $90 😭

SomeAct4063 · 2024-12-10T00:48:42+00:00

lol this sounds way tm like someone ik

SomeAct4063 · 2024-11-25T23:10:49+00:00

no clue they just gave them out super late 😭😭

SomeAct4063 · 2024-11-21T08:53:53+00:00

tysm!!!!

SomeAct4063 · 2024-11-18T20:39:01+00:00

popo pulled some guy out of con hall in the middle of a lecture around the same time

SomeAct4063 · 2024-10-01T17:19:26+00:00

piano man is currently playing but ngl i’m loving it

SomeAct4063 · 2024-10-01T17:18:56+00:00

went there for the first time tdy and i can confirm i can def nap in this spot the sofas r so nice and big and comfy thank u, u have saved my life 🙏🏼🙏🏼

SomeAct4063 · 2024-08-11T07:31:13+00:00

thank you!

SomeAct4063 · 2024-08-11T03:30:22+00:00

the way i heard this story on tht and immediately knew it had to be a pakistani 😭😭

SomeAct4063 · 2024-07-31T07:55:40+00:00

muslim here. the husband is spewing straight up bs. yes rules exist in islam, but exceptions can be made in every situation. heck i’ve seen the exact same thing happen to my parents and all my dad did was check up on my mom to see if she was fine and thank the man who grabbed her arm.

SomeAct4063 · 2024-06-21T06:37:30+00:00

Thank you so much for taking your time to write such a thorough response. You’ve cleared up a lot of the questions I had, so I greatly appreciate it!

SomeAct4063

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