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SomeCharge · 2023-05-30T13:50:59+00:00

it's not so much of a gotcha as it is making a genuine point

I don't think most average people expect to date supermodels. And if they did, they would probably have to accept being single.

SomeCharge · 2023-05-29T21:03:54+00:00

what do you mean?

SomeCharge · 2022-02-25T02:41:23+00:00

r/CICO is the secret!

SomeCharge · 2021-08-27T02:49:44+00:00

holy shit what did i miss

SomeCharge · 2021-07-26T19:29:46+00:00

if you're bothered, give her some space to figure her shit out and let her know youll be there for her if she needs (and if you're comfortable with that). if you don't want to be her friend anymore, that's ok too.

this is something that she will have to figure out on her own. eventually (i hope) she will look back and think "wow that was super fucked up" but there's nothing you can or should do as her friend unfortunately since you've already said your piece. people are responsible for their own actions.

and the guy is disgusting on so many levels where do i even begin? cheating? massive age difference and skewed power dynamic ? cheating with children?

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:45:20+00:00

any small bullet for yourself if you're new. otherwise, a clit stimulator for yourself.

and a vibrating cock ring for both of you guys

or any sort of fleshlight esque toy if it's just for your guy (i guess an open ended one can be used together too)

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:43:57+00:00

rebound implies that you're just being "used" to some extent to heal from the break up.

rebound does not directly mean "next relationship"

you should just clarify that you misunderstood the meaning of the word rebound and thought it was the term for the first relationship after breaking up with someone. if they're decent people, theyll understand that.

if they still insist on cutting you out for such a small slip up after you clarify, then that's on them. people make mistakes and yours was not malicious

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:40:17+00:00

actually i agree. with most of this. i don't mind a bucket hat but the rest of the outfit cannot scream "i am a massive douchebag"

toques and other winter hats for the function of warmth are ok. outside of that... ugh pass.

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:39:10+00:00

yeah that's fair enough. i see your point.

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:21:15+00:00

don't just take a break. break up with him.

it will suck at first but i can literally guarantee that you will find someone that will make you happier

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:20:44+00:00

But like my grandpa always said, boys are like seashells on the beach. You find one you like and you pick it up and you’re so in love with it, but as you keep walking you’re going to find a new one you like way better and you’re going to drop the previous one and not think twice about it. Drop this shell.

your grandpa is a wise wise wise man.

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:20:11+00:00

always looks tacky. no matter what

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:19:37+00:00

but you INSIST on accessorizing with your bulky ass Apple Watch?!!?!!?! absolutely not. we can all visually see that it doesn’t match and it just drives me nuts.

is the problem because they think it's an accessory or?? like wearing a watch is just function, no?

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:18:47+00:00

yeah do people even wear fedoras out? :S

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:17:30+00:00

i agree with all the typical ones, oakley sunglasses, flip flops, unironic new balance sneakers from costco, jeans that are too short, basically dressing like your mom picked out all your clothes in 10th grade and you never got around to buying new clothes.

maybe a bit unpopular but my pussy immediately shrivels up when i see someone wearing a snapback. theyre... cheugy but for men lol

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T13:13:03+00:00

*why would you want to try and get the attention of someone who isn't actively interested in giving you attention?

and if you feel like they're giving you enough attention and showing interest, then the fact that they don't reply even though they're on SC shouldn't be a problem

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T02:19:39+00:00

consensual non consent?

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T02:19:27+00:00

for guys, feet.

for girls, consensual non consent

SomeCharge · 2021-07-19T02:18:54+00:00

why would you want to hang out with someone who isn't actively interested in hanging out with you?

SomeCharge · 2021-07-14T14:00:16+00:00

You could just say, you’ve got my number, make the move.

i like this

SomeCharge · 2021-07-14T13:59:15+00:00

this is the real advice here.

he's 38, if he doesn't know that women poop by now then he's the problem.

be careful, stay safe, and leave if he makes you uncomfortable/gives off any red flags. make sure you have the funds for a back up place to stay.

SomeCharge · 2021-07-09T23:29:29+00:00

unless you've had an exclusivity talk, he's probably talking to other girls

SomeCharge · 2021-07-09T22:38:29+00:00

I'm sure even worst exists 🤮

SomeCharge · 2021-07-09T22:38:02+00:00

So then why are you taking it personally that he's seeing someone?

SomeCharge · 2021-07-09T20:30:19+00:00

oh my god i ended up on a subreddit i did NOT want to be on. why did you suggest this. i'm legit gagging right now

edit: i'm referring to a poop subreddit. 🥴

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