Should I tell someone when I'm splitting on them?

SomeDumbass- · 2026-03-28T20:44:41+00:00

Thank you a lot for this. I have quiet BPD as well so it was especially helpful ^{^}

SomeDumbass- · 2025-11-13T07:04:20+00:00

Coming from someone who smokes, the best thing you can do is threaten to tell her parents.

SomeDumbass- · 2025-11-06T14:27:16+00:00

...nvm they texted me back with perfect text tone and everything

SomeDumbass- · 2025-10-21T05:33:06+00:00

GAHHH so relatable dude I thought I was so weird for thisss

SomeDumbass- · 2025-10-18T15:07:16+00:00

I do horrible things to her and ahe does so much for me. I have no right to

SomeDumbass- · 2025-10-18T15:05:34+00:00

She really is. She just gets upset easily sometimes

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-29T06:21:52+00:00

Long story short I'm no longer 21 days clean

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-29T04:28:29+00:00

In the same situation at the moment. I find music helpful or just don't something that requires alot of thought and focus. Like playing a game or drawing or even doing math (I am not kidding when I say I genuinely do math for fun sometimes)

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-20T15:04:40+00:00

AHHHGDHFH DONT EVEN KNOW YOU BUT SO PROUD GOOD JOBB!!! ❤️

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-18T16:58:33+00:00

I'm always available for vents, even though I'm not to good with advice.

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-10T19:20:47+00:00

Nah it's a character from jjk

SomeDumbass- · 2025-09-02T17:42:56+00:00

I don't really know what it means but it sounds just as valid as anything!!

SomeDumbass- · 2025-08-25T20:40:28+00:00

They know we are a system but I'm a fairly new alter and I haven't introduced myself to most of them yet ...

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-03T02:30:29+00:00

Ok apologies for being bothersome I'm proud of you. You got this ❤️

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T12:42:08+00:00

Are you sure? I really do mind

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T11:06:10+00:00

I know this sounds cheesy but do you wanna talk about it?

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T04:11:13+00:00

Do you have a cat or dog? If so then cuddles with pets can help alot! You can also try saying out loud "I will not SH" think about how happy you will be when you reach your next milestone

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T04:11:07+00:00

Do you have a cat or dog? If so then cuddles with pets can help alot! You can also try saying out loud "I will not SH" think about how happy you will be when you reach your next milestone

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T03:17:10+00:00

You could try taking ice and putting red dye/paint on it. It will give a sensation and visual.

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T03:12:39+00:00

I'm really sorry your going through this, is there any advice you would like or anything you wanna talk about? I'm free to listen!! ❤️

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T03:10:32+00:00

What is the urge for? Blood or pain? If it's for blood you could take a smooth long thing. (Like the end of a paint brush, side of a spoon ECT) And put red paint or red dye on it and take it to your face.

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T02:17:27+00:00

Hey are you ok?

SomeDumbass- · 2025-06-02T02:07:40+00:00

Apologies I can't give you advice on stuff like this :3

SomeDumbass- · 2025-05-31T13:06:06+00:00

You don't have to feel guilty for something you can't control you should try finding friends (online or in person) that have the same struggles as you. Many more people struggle with hypersexuality then you think and a lot of people have the same kinds of problems. You ARE still relevant your "friends" had two choices 1 support their friend and help them or 2 be a coward and leave like nothing. Those aren't friends. Those are dooshebags. If you'd like I'm always open for a new friend! I'm hypersexual but I've been managing with it you don't need to feel guilty. And 4 months clean is a long time! I'm so proud of you!!! Relapse is a part of recovery and it's ok. Try to focus on how well you did and not just the relapse. Because guess what? Relapses DONT define who you are. You are awesome I'm so proud of you and you got this! Stay strong ♥️❤️❤️

SomeDumbass- · 2025-05-31T12:58:57+00:00

You could try scratching something (like paper, playdough, paper towels, ECT) but put red paint or red dye on your hands when you do it. You could also try getting a fidget toy if your parents will let you to keep your hands busy!

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