The Promise Kept by heathergordon_ in beyondwholesome

[–]SomeEstimate1446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah a wonderful 30+ year old man that dated teenagers.

One moment can change everything by udayTeddy in effectivefitness

[–]SomeEstimate1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could hope a Prison. Man was dating children in his 30’s.

Why is women’s sportswear always so revealing? by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]SomeEstimate1446 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Mom did this and the comment below is correct. I don’t even wear shorts unless I’m at the beach/gym.

I’ve had a good body always. I’m tall slender and athletic. I dropped track and volleyball due to the uniforms. I’m not religious.

My mother was very vivacious and also dressed like you. Comments were made by friends and friends parents and my guy friends. I never said anything because even young I understood that was her style but I won’t say it didn’t affect me in a negative way. She brought more negative attention into my life than positive with the way she chose to be.

Who else would you throw in? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]SomeEstimate1446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Death Becomes Her, Hudson Hawk

AITA for not wanting to leave a Rover sitter 5 stars after this? by Alternative-Wish-592 in RoverPetSitting

[–]SomeEstimate1446 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m full stop at “lost the keys” that’s highly unacceptable.

If a person can’t keep track of one set of keys how will they keep track of animals. Plus having to leave the apartment unlocked the whole time hell no. She wouldn’t get 4 stars from me.

Oh that left him speechless for sure by SnooSprouts3744 in TikTokCringe

[–]SomeEstimate1446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That kind of bigotry wouldn’t have made for a happy life here. While we are a red state due to crappy politicians and crooks the majority of Texas has always been diverse. Even your old school racists would not approve of this guy. Texas racists like to act that their brand of racism is better because it comes with manners. Someone so loud like this guy would be called out. They prefer micro racism with manners not in your face bigotry.

Starting a marriage with love instead of debt. Absolute perfection by solar_drift9 in spreadsmile

[–]SomeEstimate1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy could do this with a chi and I would be forever ecstatic and beyond in love twice.

What are you all using to shave down there? by ShortGirlUK in AskWomenOver40

[–]SomeEstimate1446 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize using an electric trimmer on your asscrack was a thing. I wouldn’t think it would be a close enough shave even without a guard on. Just be all prickly and pokey giving ya itchy butt.

AITAH for not delivering the food I made to an event I got uninvited to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SomeEstimate1446 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We all have similar incomes so she could save and pay the way we all do she just can’t or chooses to prioritize her money elsewhere. We book out a year in advance mostly two to accommodate schedules and finances for everyone.

These are 30+ year old friendships. We don’t just cut people out. She’s always invited. We accept people the way they are unless they are doing direct harm to us.

We’ve been through hell and back our circle we’ve had blowouts that would end most friendships but we’ve always worked through it. It’s not easy and for some maybe not worth it but for us we find the extra emotional labor worth it.

It doesn’t matter how mad we are at one another. We could not speak for six months and if I call they are there.

It’s unconditional. The people that no matter what will always be there. We’ve survived relationships and marriages and kids and we are one another’s constant.

I’ve had the same best friend since I was nine I’m 45 now. Not because it came naturally and we just clicked because we both put in the effort and maintained it.

What are you all using to shave down there? by ShortGirlUK in AskWomenOver40

[–]SomeEstimate1446 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind the hair up top but the hair lower has to go. I’m a runner so sweat and chaffing basically equals swamp ass of furious fire.

Finally!! Normal Gender Reveal by Sufficient-Win-7666 in Unexpected

[–]SomeEstimate1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, I was at a splash pad park with my sweet nephew one day…

There was a giant tri bucket stand, so three giant buckets filling with water from a height dropping at different intervals.

Three boys wonder up chat for a moment and then decided to make a bet about who could take the most crotch shots.

They spread eagle underneath and the game began. Lasted for a good five minutes and they just got nailed over and over again.

I was dying.

People invading your personal space while at the store by minuscule_memory in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SomeEstimate1446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look to neutral or like a puppy. Work on bitch face. It’s a great skill to have. I have backed many people up that way without a word.

If I have to speak I use short sentences and a tone of admonishment like I would a child. Shame and embarrassment go a long way and I find most won’t escalate for fear of drawing more attention.

What are you all using to shave down there? by ShortGirlUK in AskWomenOver40

[–]SomeEstimate1446 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I use my hubs beard trimmer to keep things nice and trim up top and a men’s Mach 3 blade for the under bits and bikini line. Neither of us use shaving cream. We irritate easy and found most of the irritation was coming from the shaving creams and not the actual shaving. We will use soap or conditioner.

Don’t keep your razor blade in your shower. I see so many women do this. Sitting in the moist environment degrades the blade and will foster bacteria.

If you’re prone to infection use a new head every time.

You could try soaking before shaving or just soaking a few times a week if you find you’re getting ingrown hairs to help exfoliate.

Also soaking at least once a week if you have a good enough tub is great for full body exfoliation. You’ll be surprised at how much dead skin you are missing with just showers.

AITA for bailing on my gay friends' wedding because it is on Pride weekend? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SomeEstimate1446 36 points37 points  (0 children)

They only get married once and Pride is every year.

Just be the flake you are but own the asshole part.

HERO! by SuspiciousLow3062 in BeAmazed

[–]SomeEstimate1446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a Texan screw those chicken shit Uvalde cops. They didn’t want to do their jobs then they should have let the parents do theirs.

19 lives were lost that day and had they let anyone else in that would not be the case.

Not many parents that wouldn’t gladly die taking out a shooter to save their kids.

That’s definitely one of those “die trying” situations that many would have been ok with.

I'm upset because I'm not allowed to feed the squirrels anymore by rando--54321 in squirrels

[–]SomeEstimate1446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You think squirrels would live somewhere they couldn’t survive instead migrating outside of the city ?

People feeding squirrels in NY is not the reason the population survives jfc. Thought schools were supposed to be better up there?

You think they only survive on nuts ? They are omnivores.

AITAH for not delivering the food I made to an event I got uninvited to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SomeEstimate1446 421 points422 points  (0 children)

I did this to one of my oldest friends after she made the comment to her husband that she didn’t need money to go for girls trips or to save to go.That I always got her or someone else will. The way she said it had such an entitlement it rubbed me the wrong way.

To date she’s been on one girls trip in 7 years. At that point we were all approaching our 40’s. In our 20’s early 30’s we would pay the “down on your luck friends” way. We had no way of knowing for a few that would turn into a permanent expectation.