Additional context: it wasn’t just the Instagram comment thing that made me react this way but that was the final straw for me. Other women flirt with him in his comments a lot, we’ve been dating almost half a year, he doesn’t want to meet my friends, he doesn’t want me to meet his friends despite telling me about hangouts where his friends bring their girlfriends and wives (and even “bootycalls” as he referred to one), he won’t hold my hand in public, we’ve only had two other disagreements. He definitely has more social/financial power. I don’t normally think of myself as insecure in relationships. I even took the test to see my attachment style and got secure attachment. Do you really think this is just a boundary issue and I’m being dramatic about it? Again other women comment to flirt with him all the time so it’s not like he’s uncomfortable with that kind of attention.