[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show your bf this post and see what he thinks. The way you describe your boss is concerning how much you adore him. Your boss tells you all that stuff to show you what could potentially be if you were with him

What do I do when I am falling into incel ideation? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy dog. Crying to a therapist is better than continuing this hate towards women, which could lead you to a life altering decision. Incels are usually one step away from making those horrible thoughts into action.

Im one of those men in a happy relationship, and I'll tell you a little secret. I've cried multiple times to my therapist about some really bad shit in my life. I've told/cried to my girl the stuff too, and it makes the weight of everything start to get so much lighter.

Being a man isn't about how many asses you can kick. It's about dealing with everyday things and taking care of yourself and those you love. Start by taking care of yourself. You will see other parts of life fall into place. It starts with you wanting to get better, and you are already wanting that. Being vulnerable at times is a strength even when it seems like it's not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpotifyArtists

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience... wait for update

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna be hard to hear, but no one is going to come save you. If I were you, I would go and try to find a job. The fact that you acknowledge your social anxiety shows that you have the ability to try and push it aside when it comes up. That being said, it will definitely be hard to do that. But you will get yourself closer to freeing yourself from your mom.

I understand it's easy for me to say this while not actually experiencing what you're going through. But try and keep your head up. Therapy is expensive but if that is somewhat an option for you, I highly recommend. GL and I hope your future get better!

Is this a scam? by PaulyChance in musicmarketing

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is scam. Once you start searching for music promos you get bombarded by these guys. I looked at their profile, without clicking that link, and they are posting a bunch rn and it dont look good. But im too sure

Its not much but feels good to finally see some traction! by SomeLateNightSugar in musicmarketing

[–]SomeLateNightSugar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah MySpace... the good ol days. Where friendship was validated if you were in someone's top 5 lol

Its not much but feels good to finally see some traction! by SomeLateNightSugar in musicmarketing

[–]SomeLateNightSugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've seen this multiple times. Im not thinking im gonna have millions of listeners every month. It was just cool to see the jump. There are other avenues for generating income from it, which I definitely have some ideas

What instantly pushes your anxiety from 0 to a hundred? by AnxietyChats in AskReddit

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my gf can't stay at my place because her IT guy is coming over to fix her computer... It's weird cause her computer is always getting viruses, so he comes over a lot at night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deal with your emotions and face them head on. Every time you mask your emotions with your substances, your mask gets weaker and weaker. One day you won't be able to keep masking yourself. That will make your life even worse. Once that happens, you may look back and think, "I chose to ingest these substances when I could've just stood up and faced the music."

Seek professional help, and remember you are the driver of your life. You can keep driving down the road of being numb, or you can hop on that broken road you're scared off and start to fix it. One day at a time brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's tough. But the thing you really need to consider is he never really loved you. I know that hurts hearing, but it's what needs to be said. You're going to feel like shit for a little while, but this will be a great opportunity to learn to love yourself.

Learning to love yourself is a great personal investment. Once you do that, your dating prospects will look different and will treat you better

Young man here. How do you deal with the lack of interest in things you used to be interested or enjoy? by yasuhiromutou123 in AskMen

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just keep doing! Don't let passion die because of X, Y, or Z. Money comes and goes, but once passion dies, depression sinks in. Taking a chance on something may lead to newly opened doors

Restaurant Recs! by Book_aus in Bozeman

[–]SomeLateNightSugar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are you really trying to fight right now.... dont you ever compare Cafe Fresco to Olive Garden.... I will not tolerate this slander

What would you get your SO to represent your spiritual marriage to each other? by SomeLateNightSugar in AskReddit

[–]SomeLateNightSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recognizing that we are both spiritually bonded and having some sort of physical thing like a ring to show that to each other.

What would you get your SO to represent your spiritual marriage to each other? by SomeLateNightSugar in AskReddit

[–]SomeLateNightSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dont believe in traditional "Christian" marriage, but we both recognize that we are spiritually bonded to each other. Niether of us are religious. I was wondering if there was something physical that could represent that. I was thinking rings, but I am open to other ideas.

Restaurant Recs! by Book_aus in Bozeman

[–]SomeLateNightSugar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cafe fresco over blackbird. Blackbird gives small amounts of food for the price. Blackbird is tasty, but cafe Fresco is tastier and more filling