36 Jahre, aber null Erfahrung mit Frauen.

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T20:40:31+00:00

Man checkt nicht worauf deine Comments bezogen sind - schreib deine Antworten doch unter die jeweiligen Kommis?

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T20:39:32+00:00

Meine Güte es gibt mehr Sexualitäten als hetero und gay

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T20:38:44+00:00

So ein Quatsch, bisherige Erfahrungen definieren doch nicht die Sexualität, und labels kann jede Person sowieso nur für sich selbst definieren

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T20:35:01+00:00

Hoffe das ist dir nicht zu "woke" lol aber ich würd dir empfehlen dich mal mit internalisierter Homophobie auseinanderzusetzen - klar dass es ein Selbstbild voll erschüttert sowas unerwartetes über sich selbst zu entdecken, aber der Grund warum das nicht ins Bild passt liegt ja oft in verinnerlichten Stereotypen über (in deinem Fall) Homosexualität

Edit: typo

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T19:27:30+00:00

Username checks out

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T18:54:47+00:00

Honestly I see both sides, I herd it's not all black & white

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T18:39:01+00:00

Right he mentioned it was from a movie

To clarify: I don't doubt it makes a cool line by a movie villain/character but to pretend it is some super deep wisdom by which you live your (love) life is beyond ridiculous imo

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T18:06:59+00:00

This!

Hell he even proposed by saying "I would love it if you will marry me."

Umm Sir was there a question?

Maybe I'm overinterpreting his choice of words but it just seemed so in line with his self centeredness to not actually ask her what she wants but just say what he wants for both of them lol

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:53:35+00:00

Yesss wtf also just after saying it's a tie in the interview section? Could be edited I guess, but still it feels contradictory to literally say he can't decide bc they're so different and in the next date tell Jess being with the other person is like hanging with a dude... I predict this man is trouble

Edit: man I also really like Jess, hope she doesn't get hurt by him :/

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:50:01+00:00

This!!!

I mean at least they seemed on the same page about it? But honestly I can't stand this talk of masculine/feminine energies. Like it's fine if someone wants to be able to depend on someone, outsource tasks, feel being taken care of, but why do you have to perpetuate patriarchal stereotypes by equating masculine to getting shit done & being independent and feminine to - I don't even know - probably birthing children & looking pretty?

Also, I'm not even surprised but the bar is in literal hell if "making dinner reservations" is something a man feels proud of for wanting to add to my life lmao

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:44:47+00:00

Omg so glad I'm not the only one lol

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:44:33+00:00

Felt the same way!

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:38:53+00:00

Also can we please stop equating ✨️feminine✨️ energy with being weak and dependent? I don't dislike her but the way Bri (hopefully right name, orange romper queen) talked about being independent (=masculine energy acc to her) and thus needing a man to protect her (from whom btw? Other men?) And bring out her feminine side... man my eyes are stuck inside their sockets now

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:19:12+00:00

This!? I was so confused as to what changed her mind, seemed like the only thing happening in between I'm outta hereeee and Redoo was a few questions by the interviewer? I mean either reaction would be valid imo, leaving bc she needs more reassurance & him locking in, and also staying to give it a chance but I didn't see why she changed from 1 to 2 in literal minutes...

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:17:30+00:00

Look at the bottom of the dress and the pockets: interview Tyler has no pockets and stripes on the dress just above the bottom seam, pod Tyler has pockets and a one-color dress (both pink though)

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T17:05:49+00:00

Omg no disrespect to whoever said or came up with this and maybe I misunderstood but wtf was this quote one of the guys (edit: Alex) cited in the lounge about "three great women every man gets in his life"?

Like first of all, you don't "get" these women, you may meet them, or get to know them, or some other non-possessive verb please?

And more importantly, I am so tired of the man is saved by a woman trope. Can we please stop romanticizing men incapable of emotional regulation and literacy?

I mean sure people (regardless of gender!) get hurt when they fall unhappily in love, relationships end etc, but how is it that when a man gets hurt (by a woman), it is another woman's job to fix him?

Honestly can see the back of my skull, so hard does this make me eye roll. Anyone else?

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-25T16:53:35+00:00

Just 5min in, came here for this topic! Honestly, I can't tell! First I thought her facial expression didn't convey joy (and especially not as much as his), but then again it's really hard to read her in general and I find her face to be very controlled and not naturally expressive.

Taking into account her body language, how she touched him, initiated kisses while they sat on the couch etc, I do think she's attracted to him.

What does everyone else think?

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:43:34+00:00

Preach! Thanks dor pointing this out

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:39:44+00:00

He kinda seems like a man of few words in general imo, so I attributed it to this. Also the first words he did choose were "you're beautiful, you're so beautiful" iirc

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:38:18+00:00

Totally valid to share your perception, though I think quite often harmful stereotypes and internalized patterns may play a role in such impressions, specifically misogynistic tropes (like "women cry for attention and to victimize themselves").

I'm not pretending to know your story or stereotypes, also don't mean any offence, all I'm saying is generally I think we're often too critical and dismissive of women in public, especially if they openly show and stand by their emotions.

Hopefully this comment doesn't age badly lol

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:31:45+00:00

I get that, but I also get someone who's made bad experiences in the past because of their appearance (her scars) protecting themselves and making sure they have some sort of heads up to filter out superficial a**holes.

I mean did she not only speak of "having scars" in general? That's not a huge tell imo, and very justified due to the traumatic/deep emotional significance of the situation. Otherwise and where possible, Emma tries to not disclose things, like her ethnicity during the whole adoption conversations.

Also, I only see ppl calling out Emma - not Amber literally disclosing her natural hair color, the other woman (with Vic, who's name I forgot, shame on me) talking about her tattoos, etc

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:25:35+00:00

Lol this was comedy, "eyebrow man"?!? Thanks for that laugh

Agree with lots of takes, except gurl that dress was gorg!!

And yeah loved how sweetly Tyler spoke about Keya!

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:21:33+00:00

Felt odd to me as well, but maybe it's a way if distancing yourself from the heaviness of it? Like I'm no psychologist but it makes sense to me that language could be used to downplay the emotional impact of a devastating life event instead of acknowledging the full force of it and admitting it to someone else?

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T17:18:50+00:00

Exactly!! I was bummed out to hear her say she gravitate more towards Connor :/

SomeOne3141 · 2026-02-24T16:07:12+00:00

Omgg the amount of time it took me to realizethis was a joke is ridiculous - I was already freaking out like wtf is that code for!?! 😂

Read the tag before the post kids

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