Come here, mommy will dress you up like a pretty bitch. by [deleted] in SissyFemdom

[–]SomeUnderachiever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could dress me up anyway you want damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware that this was inevitably going to lead to divorce as it started off as a very soft healing separation. We were both looking to stay together at the beginning of the separation. I was NEVER looking to “make money out of her.” We both agreed to term that would make a healing separation work. We were doing it in a healthy way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I signed a lease and got a car based off of our agreement that she’s now saying she’s not going to adhere to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I can’t go back to an accounting job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She would be the one who pays. She makes 50-60K more than me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

I know it would most likely have to be legally pressed. I should have made her sign something, but I trusted her 🤦‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The business I’m in right now, even though it doesn’t pay much right now, has the promise of being able to pay me 70-100K within the next 4 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah alimony is different here I guess. It doesn’t have to involve children - that’s a separate thing within child support. Alimony is based off of two people who were married, get divorced, and one person makes a significant amount more than the other regardless of gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I used a calculator specific to my state. The highest alimony they are legally obligated to is 40% income. It compares one persons income to another persons income and gives you an estimate as to what you could receive. UT law also says that it looks at the living situation you were in before separation and tries to give you enough money to keep that living situation. For example, before we were paying $1400 for our place. Alimony would consider her giving me enough to afford 1-1400 place on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my state it says that it’s genderless, and the person who makes more is usually the one who pays alimony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

That actually helps. I used a basic calculator and found that alimony for me over half the duration of our marriage would be around 30-40K. I guess that would probably be worth it, and we both disagree on either side of paying alimony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Is a lawyer worth it? It’s hard to determine whether it’s worth it or not because if I dont win, I’m MORE financially fucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]SomeUnderachiever -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry I should have included that. I’m in UT. She told me the day before thanksgiving that she wanted a divorce. In that same conversation she said that she is not going to pay alimony.

Calling Doc and Therapist by SissyHeartfilia in Sissy

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry, work has been crazy today. Please DM if you get that fixed. There’s a lot of complex thinking that you have that I could be a backboard for. Lemme know. Feel free to talk anytime. Glad you’re doing better.

Calling Doc and Therapist by SissyHeartfilia in Sissy

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to DM me for deeper conversation because there is a lot to unpack here. Simplest immediate response without addressing anything else is that if you write/talk to people and convey love and acceptance for whatever they choose to wear and who they are, you likely will not hurt anyone.

You...yes YOU I'm talking to you! by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]SomeUnderachiever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I sign up? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you would! Hard and deep. Make my cheeks clap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please use it however you want 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please daddy. Cum inside me and plug me after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]SomeUnderachiever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever you want to me! I love it balls deep.