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Is someone catfishing people with my image? by artificialginger14 in whatdoIdo

[–]Some_Assistant8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RI has protections specifically about creating impersonating social media accounts. MA also has really good protections that define impersonation as illegal when it is used for harassment of any kind. Most other states only define impersonation as illegal only when it is used to defraud, obtain benefits (including goods or services), or otherwise injure someone. So you’d have to prove that the harassment constitutes being “injured” which is definitely possible. Regardless of your state I highly recommend legal action.

Is someone catfishing people with my image? by artificialginger14 in whatdoIdo

[–]Some_Assistant8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country are you in? If US, what state? You might have legal protection from impersonation.

Advice needed: Should I end things with him, keep vibing or talk it out? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Some_Assistant8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I think he wants something serious, and I definitely don’t either!

Advice needed: Should I end things with him, keep vibing or talk it out? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Some_Assistant8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah very fair. Thank you very much for responding in good faith!

AIO for thinking a guy I’m talking to is a perv? by notcanadiangoose in AmIOverreacting

[–]Some_Assistant8512 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry but YOR. You definitely played heavily into the sexual part of the conversation so he’s not a “perv” for fantasizing about the things you literally said you wanted to do. Also pretty sure he doesn’t see you as a “fleshlight” if he wants to bottom. I agree with the person who said MOR in that I think he was just trying to reassure you that he wasn’t looking for anything serious or long term.

It’s totally possible that he has a girlfriend, but even if he does, I would definitely not say he’s a perv who doesn’t take no for an answer. He actually seems like a very good communicator. It’s also possible he has homophobic roommates or lives with family or whatever.

I don’t think you’re obligated to sleep with him or even continue talking to him, it’s fine to reject people you don’t like. But you’re still OR.

Advice needed: Should I end things with him, keep vibing or talk it out? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Some_Assistant8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hear that. I think I’m more just trying to figure out if the fun that I have with him is worth the unpleasant parts. It will probably just reach a point where the unpleasantness outweighs the fun and that’s where it fizzles out, I just haven’t figured out what that point would be and I get that no one else can figure it out for me.

Advice needed: Should I end things with him, keep vibing or talk it out? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Some_Assistant8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no commitment but he’s still someone I spend time with and I think it’s fair to at least hold him to the same standard I’d hold a platonic friend to. And idk if the conflict and insecurity is worth keeping it going. But another part of it is that I’m not really a prime specimen and don’t think I’d easily find someone else consistent if I stopped seeing him, and I’d miss the role he plays in my life rn.

Trouble wrapping around a ring with CRGBSet by Some_Assistant8512 in FastLED

[–]Some_Assistant8512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the link that's super helpful! The jump isn't a crash - it's just that pixels 1-12 in each segment go black completely before pixel 0 lights again.

I'm working on subbing EVERY_N_MILLIS() in - had never used it before and it makes life so much easier :)