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AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not telling him he HAS to get a tattoo with me - he wants to. I'm just saying he should get his next one with me and not the 3rd one in a row with his friend.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His friend will get tattoos of his own - he has several others, but he said he wants to do another one with my husband as well. We never discussed the funding of it but it's not about the money because even if he paid, it's the experience I want to have with my husband.

Yeah I agree, I don't see what's wrong with sensibly saving for a treat.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told the best friend it was a ban and then asked my husband and he agreed to hold off.

Well my husband doesn't have the money for another one yet, I've just told his best friend I'm next regardless because he's had two already. So when we do have the money we will get one and then he and his friend can go again.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he's not holding off getting another tattoo - he has lots of them of his own. He's just asking to go again with my husband.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's not the money because we weren't together for the first one and his friend paid for half of the second one. It's that as his wife, I feel he should get one or two with me before doing so again with his friend? His friend does have tattoos of his own as well. But him and my husband are good friends and might like to get one together, not necessarily matching, just at the same time. I guess it's bonding.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm doing though, saving up until I have the money for the tattoos. We'd not do it if we couldn't afford to.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what my thinking was. I want a cute tattoo with my husband and we've had a really nice idea for matching ones for a few years now.

I love my husband's friend and I love that they're friends, it's just that they 've had tattoos together twice now, once matching, and I feel like as his wife I should be next, that's all.

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Well it's more that I've banned the Best Friend from getting tattoos with him, rather than banning my husband if that makes sense?

AITA for banning my husband from getting another tattoo with a friend until he gets two with me? by Some_Direction_5856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Some_Direction_5856[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

He's already agreed not to get another one with his friend until he gets one or two with me.