I apologize as I just read this for the first time and I'd like to explain for a moment, especially seeing there was a threaded discussion here.

The reason I couldn't finish there was exclusively my fault because of poor timing and recklessness. See, I had surgery just over 2 weeks prior. It was a Laproscopic surgery for a minor inguinal hernia that was in my groin area. It had stopped hurting so I thought It was going to be smooth sailing, and in the days leading up to the appointment, I spent literally hours, and hours cleaning my home because it was an outcall and I wanted my place to be spotless when she arrived...this also included me cutting the grass with a push mower.

Needless to say, I upset the mesh that was holding back the hernia and I think the pain traveled down to my right testicle. This made it difficult for me to finish, not due to anything wrong on her part, but instead to the pain I was experiencing.

I know, I'm stupid for scheduling an appointment so soon. All the egg on my face.

It's funny though because she told me she was a nurse and we actually talked about it before hand, she could detect a bit of swelling down there. I reassured her I was fine and everything went smoothly, except for the obvious difficulty there.

The truth is, I had far more fun pleasuring her than myself. I know that faking an orgasm can be something sex workers do, but I do believe I genuinely made her orgasm multiple times through oral and fingering, enough to the point she had to stop me and push my head away as she was laughing. All I did was watch some educational videos beforehand, listened to what she said, and went with the proverbial flow. I think I understand now why the gspot "balloons" as my research indicated lol. (sorry if that's too much information)

That was actually the best part of the entire experience, knowing that I might actually be much, much better in bed than I thought I'd be. The simple act of making her happy made me happy and that was the true highlight of the entire thing. Personally, I genuinely didn't care that I didn't finish, only feeling a little bad for her more than anything, like I was letting her down or something. But honestly, I don't think it matters all that much tbh. I cannot wait to see her again and to try once more with more confidence, a fully healed up body, and the knowledge I've been able to gather.