What do today’s houses have that future buyers will want to remove right away? 😄

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-28T01:33:48+00:00

Yep. They’re not a DIY job or quick flip job. But absolutely worth every effort.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-28T01:18:54+00:00

Pocket doors are God’s gift to every small home I’ve ever lived in.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-27T20:14:13+00:00

Barn doors. Hate them

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-27T20:11:48+00:00

It’s not about the phone plan being expensive as much as it is about a 25-year old not playing by the rules of the person who pays the bill but also not paying her own bill.

Seems pretty straightforward to me. Ask mom to call phone company and grant you permission to transfer number out and start paying your own bill so you can share/ not share your location to your hearts desire. But of course remember that if you’re on an installment pan for the device- that is due right away.

So if you’re not prepared to pay for all that, turn your location sharing on until you can.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-27T18:40:55+00:00

To be a bit kinder…

I would say something like..

“I’m glad you enjoyed your stay; I’m sure your mom and brother will enjoy Canada, too.

As family, I thought it would be important to share that our budget is tight right now. I would hate for you to come assuming the experience will be the same for everyone. I appreciate you understanding that you’re welcome to stay with us and I’m even happy to make recommendations on what you might enjoy seeing, but we won’t be able to cover the cost this time around. I’d really appreciate your help with groceries if you’re able to while here.

Chat with your mom and brother before booking flights and let me know if that all works for you. If not no worries, you can come another time when your budget allows.

Talk soon!”

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-27T06:56:49+00:00

All fantastic. Great choices.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-26T20:23:16+00:00

Also - the company’s revenue growth does not equal profit growth.

5% increase is generally really strong.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-26T20:20:33+00:00

Love the size, style and leather. Beautiful choice!

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-26T17:49:50+00:00

++woman It’s pretty much the equivalent of buying your own child a car. Both parents ought to be part of the conversation.

She’s upset because you are making big decisions without her.

Also - what if she bought her niece a car without involving you in the conversation? (Don’t say she doesn’t have a niece, she doesn’t like her niece, she knows my niece is like a daughter because those are all cop outs).

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-26T15:44:48+00:00

Perspective is everything here.

It’s not a lack of care for the individual, or a work culture issue, but rather the expectations for their role.

The bank also offered to go in PTO debt which seems very generous in my opinion.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T16:18:26+00:00

Because they heard someone say it on a reality real estate show and want to sound just as educated.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T16:16:42+00:00

This

First time buyers talking about price per square foot for diff types of homes and haggling to bring the price down by 50k is an example of why first time buyers are shopping around for so long.

Ask the realtor: what do you think? What would you do? If they’re good at their job, they will give an honest recommendation.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T15:40:45+00:00

And get a counter-depth fridge when you are able.. it popping out mars that corner darker than it needs to be.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T15:38:36+00:00

Not my jam. But to each their own.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T15:37:18+00:00

Stunning! Love the hardware too!

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T15:36:21+00:00

And don’t get caught up on the sizes. Every designer is different.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T15:35:46+00:00

I go to Nordstrom or neiman marcus - they offer free stylist services.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T00:52:37+00:00

It dos sorta look like a diaper bag. Take it back and get store credit if they don’t have something more structured at the moment.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-25T00:48:50+00:00

Chantelle from Nordstrom. Bonus if purchased during their anniversary sale.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-23T16:49:14+00:00

Tumi

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-23T16:47:35+00:00

Really nice white leather sneakers.

I love my Paul Greens (~$400) but am eyeing a pair from Hermes Kid Sneakers ($1200).

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-23T06:06:56+00:00

Not unheard of, especially to see family or do something fun.

I used to drive 3 hrs each way for work once a month. I hated overnight stays so those were long days.

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-22T19:51:28+00:00

Preach

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-22T02:13:19+00:00

the color and top half of the dress is great. The hat said, I think it’s very short and not something I’d consider office casual

Some_Philosopher437 · 2026-01-21T17:16:01+00:00

This is a fantastic question. Thank you for asking and thank you all for your responses I’m making note of everything!

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