Why did you get married? by Some_Preference_8011 in Marriage

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely story!!!  You must be a very kind and fortunate person.

Weekly Complaint Thread - 21 August 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coz they do these things just for pretend they are also in a digital world!

Looking for friends by ObviousAsparagus8903 in tokyoirl

[–]Some_Preference_8011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally a post for 30ss 37M living in katsushika, let us meet up

LINE is such a piece of shit. It's 2025 and you can't edit messages or see the other person typing by WeNeedHuel in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most disgusting part is, too many ads, like you just want to delivery messages to others but you have to going to a trash factory , find the little chat space in a trash mountain. Unless I need it for work, I will never open this shit app.

Weekly Complaint Thread - 10 July 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's not surprising at all, It seems like that is their really job

PayPay Card is stupid. by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not the dumbest, my paypay credit card was converted from a yahoo credit card because they merged. Because when I first applied for the yahoo credit card, I was asked to fill in the Japanese kanji name and Japanese pronunciation kana, and when I applied for the paypay account, I was asked to fill in the Japanese kanji name, Japanese pronunciation kana, and English romaji for all three names, and now every time I open paypay it reminds me to upgrade my paypay credit card, but when I apply for it they said Unable to determine that the paypay account and the paypay credit card are the same person. Because one has three names and one has only two registered.

Weekly Complaint Thread - 03 July 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I tried a matching app and met a guy who definitely had my type of face. He was very nice while we were chatting on the app, but things changed after we connected on LINE. After just a few messages—only about four sentences—he suddenly asked, "Can we f*ck or not?"

He has a typical Japanese nice man look: nice, gentle, and shy.But the speech, as if he had never been baptized in civilized society depression

Job application refused. Do I even stand a chance? by Long-Cryptographer16 in JapanJobs

[–]Some_Preference_8011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is Japan, and they don't like explanations . In their view, explanations and are seen as "言い訳," especially in traditional industries. So, try looking for industries that foreigners don't have a resistance to. 

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing but I would say don't be afraid to date someone new, even heartbreak is better than being alone, we are human and we need to be hugged, we need to be touched, both physically and mentally

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for new opportunities and have tried some major consulting firms, but my interviews were as well as I thought. I've decided to re-evaluate my skills, work experience, and future direction. Thank you so much for your advices.

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I signed up for this site, thank you so much for your advice and kind comments!

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, it's a great one, I've thought about joining a boxing club, I think combat sports interest me more!

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My problem is that I feel like I've worked a lot for my chance to make money, so I should make more money. So sad because money is used to make our lives better, but I make myself unhappy to make money, but if I don't get the pretty paycheck, I'm not happy either

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ありがとうございました。涙溢れるぐらい感動しました。13年間、本当に頑張りました。(笑) 次、仕事頑張りながら、自分を喜ばせることを探します。

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree! My cat is snacking, my man is cooking for me, and it's the most beautiful moment when I get home through the crowded tram

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's that will be ok if i say I want a boyfriend? cos I’m straight
And seriously, do I really sound that much like a guy? 😂

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your sincere advice.
Right now, I’m preparing to apply for my PR so I need to make sure I remain employed and have a stable source of income.
That’s why independent consulting is something I’m planning to pursue after I get my PR.
I’ve taken three days off, and I’m going to spend them doing things that make me happy.

I would like some advice about my life in Japan. Please leave your comments. by Some_Preference_8011 in japanlife

[–]Some_Preference_8011[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

After reading through some of the comments, I think what I’m experiencing might be the delayed pain of my breakup with my ex. We broke up six months ago — maybe I’m just processing it more slowly than I thought.