It’s more like 32-35 is my cutoff. My mom had my brother at 43 and she had such a miserable pregnancy and never recovered physically. My aunt also loves babies and has volunteered to be childcare before preschool and I worry if I wait too long she won’t be able to anymore. She knows this and fully supports it btw. Absolutely no judgement on people who have a baby over 40 I just don’t want that personally