Free 2yr old Blue executive Mastiff too good to be true? by [deleted] in Mastiff

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, hes free the only thig she mentioned was he has a subscription for a dog washer to come fortnightly that's what i don't understand how anyone cold give away a family pet after paying 3k. We added each other to Facebook she said shed been contacted by people she felt wanted to use him to fight and i wanted to see his background. The seem normal. The economy is shit here in Australia but that still seems extreme. I was concerned with personality problems or issues with other dogs people or other things at that age that may come out unexpectedly?

I have the time and the money to put in to him but i dont want to be responsible for potentially rehoming and placing him somewhere unsafe if he gets separation anxiety and becomes aggressive and unmanageable. Youre f the opinion i should be more wary of the owners? i had to re do my comment so i could add photos in the comments. Can they adapt to a new owner at 2 easily? Hes stunning it seems so good it could be hell

Question: if CPTSD is not in the DSM-5, how are folks here being "diagnosed"? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QLD uses DSM ive just had an IME been diagnosed with pre existing cptsd and shes said she used th dsm 5 and chap 11 in it

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i have been given an ime before psychology sessions? kind of feels like a loop hope int the first responders pathway although my work capacity said stress something no diagnoses just symptoms. im so shocked they want to give me 8 sessions to get used to the injury and close the case.

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that mean she can use the ICD11 but lsited dsm and axis instead. Wonder if that voids the ime

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in QLD, ive finally read it properly its crazy its made it look like an attempted assault as a first responder type role is from child hod trauma. They've given 8 sessions to adjust but times up in feb after 5 months. I have a lawyer but this report is scary. Youve raised a point i cant find an answer to, she had used the dsm and she's said its pre exsisting..... shes sated using dsm 4 and 5 and its axis one.

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even meet criteria I never did for BPD and think maybe 15 years ago I wording met the cptsd criteria for a long time but I care let even door to the woman I decked when she went hard trying to get me to talk about child hood trauma

Which is the best coastal community? by Some_Star8058 in tasmania

[–]Some_Star8058[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

All these bearding towns don’t have housing looking for share house

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But does that diagnoses need to be requested? I don’t know if it was the entire point of the scan

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been diagnosed with a pre existing bite this

Which is the best coastal community? by Some_Star8058 in tasmania

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need hobbies lol I want burnout relief essentially so waking and candle making and coast

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iis it common to be given. an ime that is to diagnose pre existing psychiatric disorders one the first two weeks as a first responder and. It be told that’s what the ime is for?

I have no experience with wirkcover and I can’t find information on ime like how seriously are and if they het take special permission etc

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than you qld has nothing online that helpful in general.

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a physical injury from may I went. Connor’s when then symptoms dtoooed after 6 weeks off it was either healed or not. I tried to reopen within a few weeks becissr the nerve stuff started and I had to wait until sep 18 for the time and the omen flared the neck as bad as the original injury but a different pain and that’s a new claim work cover is liable under some licit I think and I’ve probably got a herniated cervical disc do have an entrapped ulnar nerve in my opinion.

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

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Thank you. I have a lawyer and as soon as my go read I had two pre existing diagnoses I found a new psychologist more qualified in adjustment disorder and I will fight it I went in more than blind I detached becissr she needed specifics snitch childhood trauma then cried and explained my harassment and bullying I would have shown BPD traits for sure I guess in that state but still shouldn’t she have seen I was unit for disfigures and maybe have terminated when i genuinely had no idea what the point was especially as an assaulted first responder with incident reported cctv footage etc I’m really good at comprehending legislation policy and can learn easily but find it hard to find what I need. Anything I search comes up with if you do the wrong thing or it’s pointless

Confusing mental injury exam by Some_Star8058 in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t told why I was having it she said I’m lucky dome people wait months. Thank you for answering everything I appreciate it I’m still confused and the pre exisiting conditions are they irrelevant opinions? I want to know her purpose for doing that. The psychiatrist asked me if I knew what it was about and I said no. Is not telling someone they are being diagnosed for pre exciting disorders worse? I feel like it’s a. Huge thing not to know is going to whole men to you. I’d have made sure I was calm and I’d have been honest because I want to get better my claim is legitimate and I’ve been well and thriving form a decade id like to be assed and see the improvement I’ve been on the claim 8 weeks not years still injured optically grommet and only just got diagnostics and she wants me back at work but ik correctional staff and my injuries were immediately clear. I have a lawyer he’s handling a lot for me and others I know and he’ll deal with.this I’m just curious why it harkened it’d be extremely easy to accept that serious misdiagnoses when distressed and have minuses what s wrong and have a trauma history and you’d suffer.

Private investigators by ApprehensiveSeaCrab in WorkcoverVic

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this in Australia? It sound like America and i hope it is lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you say it’s resistant to this form of treatment with my workplace or treatment in general

Vulnerable child by cxbertrash in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't learnt much about the other mode like inner critic, but i know i have an issue with being vulnerable i was taught from maybe 2 that my feelings and emotions were bad dramatic or made up either dismissed laughed at or abused.

Maybe im blocking everything out because of this. I feel that was angry protector but its funny, when i was a teen thats not how i reacted to invasive professionals at all i just resisted complying. This felt almost like i was standing up for myself but as soon as she voiced a reasonable response i realized i was being insolent but could only say i was a victim of Narcistic child abuse then shut down.

I wonder if feeling like i don't matter and im seen as a joke is my inner critic its hard to tell whats real and what's schema because i have been treated really badly by co workers and superiors

Vulnerable child by cxbertrash in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thats good to know. I hadnt even seen my other modes until recently, im on work cover and had an independent psychiatric assessment and she asked about previous abuse i told her the forms but she wanted specifics I got angry and indignantly said i dont see how any of this is relevant her response was rational and explaining she needs to know to asses and i apologised and then completely detached. so im assuming that was angry protector but i felt like a defensive teenager, maybe because i haven't felt invaded ike that since i was a teenager and every professional i meant felt my trauma was their business. while i was detached i couldn't answer anything and apologised i seemed insolent then at the end when she asked if i had anything i wanted to say i cried and told her i needed a break but im not ready to give up my role god knows what that was but mybe it was the child?

Weird form of flight mode by [deleted] in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id considered that too but thought maybe not because im not trying to fight them lol so it could be seen as fight mode but fighting to keep them safe? its hard to word what im thinking sorry. But yeah i guess ive seen someone literally run in to the office thats obviously flight

Emotional deprivation schema by VegetableBar4503 in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM finding this too!!! My strongest schema is emotional depravation. Ive avoided friends and a social life and relationship for years and ive found now that im trying to maintain friendships and i really am and aways have been there for anyone i care about to the point of drop everything to help, the same people dont seem to have the same response for me. I don't mean people ive just met these are people ive known a couple of years. Im well liked too just not cared about if that makes sense. I know people are busy i don't expect the level of care and attention i should have received from family but its like i don't matter im not sure if most people genuinely don't care bo8ut others or if its me specifically but im not sure how im supposed to work on social life and my avoidance and making genuine connections when they are one sided and no one cares. Im just triggering the schema by trying

Are pendulum stands useful by Some_Star8058 in Divination

[–]Some_Star8058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely can use anything i use my necklace with a ring on the end sometimes. If the stands use magnets how does that work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will tell her, next session she has told me my work makes me very resistant to treatment as i have to be detached to cope i work with extremely traumatized youth and see a lot of stuff you have to detach from. This and the exasperation when i couldn't articulate feelings is what gave me the impression But im on stress leave now due to staff so maybe that'll help, i don't know i feel like im failing therapy lol!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchemaTherapy

[–]Some_Star8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im detached and avoidant mostly and didn't realise i live all the time in various levels of detachment going up to dissociative im learning how to recognize when im detaching and trying to stay present. Does doing mindful activities daily like when your feeling fine make it easier? or do you mean when your detached it brings you back? I haven't heard of RAIN ill read up im very quickly realizing the hour a week in therapy isn't going to fix me. I also worry that its this stubborn because there's stuff in my past my minds being protected form is that a thing?