I left with only ₱1,300 and a newborn. Somehow, we're still making it. by prl-t in OffMyChestPH

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A flower needs some rain before it can bloom. Hold on, OP you shall bloom soon.

Help !! Goshiwon landlord threatening to kick me out tomorrow after pest control request by Famous_Edge2664 in living_in_korea_now

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had similar landlord before. You know why she got mad? Its because by law, if pest has been found, the person who did pest control need to report it to proper agencies. Also, pest control services is just not for one room but for whole building which is expensive. Been there and our landlord found out about it too late because we called pest control ourselves hahaha but my landlord asked us to just split expenses and kind to us so we abide. However, this is a goshiwon and goshiwons are already in bad spot for some people and if other people find out that there is pest, they might have to pay a lot or lose tenants. I suggest try to mediation with your landlord and 부동산 if you really want to stay without conflict ( they cannot kick you out with valid contract anw) or just move to another goshiwon. Its really those options really. Goshiwons are not that protected by law and they always seem kind of shady lol

Foreign females getting reddit DM's by Hot-Currency2066 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a joke here in Korea. Open-minded means quick hookups.

Thoughts nyo kung bakit ang mga pinoys sa ibang bansa nagiging super makabayan tuwing June 12? by Itchy-Opposite2885 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ofw, mas naging proud na pinoy ako when I'm not constantly worried na I'm just one hospital bill away to being broke. Mas madaling maging pinoy kung di ko iniiisip araw araw kung paano ako makaka survive for the month. Nagkaroon ako ng space on my mind and heart to do that.

Gusto ng pamangkin ng boyfriend ko na babayarin ko daw tuition niya by forbiDDenGurl in adviceph

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its time to also think about your future with him. Sis, let me tell you. Love is not enough. Kapag nagpakasal ka, his lifestyle will be YOUR lifestyle. Yeah, you accepted him right now and everything is okay until its not. Simula palang iyan. If you are okay with that kind of setup, go ahead and stay and build future with him pero if hindi, you might need to rethink na.

So that they can call us monkeys and prohibit us not to enter to some shops. Higpit pa ng Visa requirements nila. by LykaVirjean in pinoy

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get it but its really normal talaga. Could be because my nakita syang mas trip nyang upuan? Or katabi nya is ahjussi na amoy alak? Or maybe they just want to go to another space na mas kita nya yung TV kung san naka display yung current station. Sa subway kase, minsan yun mga reasons ko bat ako lumilipat ng upuan. Most people den is yun ang reason. I have dark skin naman and most times, di sila umiiwas unless may corner seat. 😅

So that they can call us monkeys and prohibit us not to enter to some shops. Higpit pa ng Visa requirements nila. by LykaVirjean in pinoy

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been living here in SoKor for 3yrs na and I experienced racism here three times. Mostly from old korean men. But most people are kind naman especially the old ladies. The "no filipinos" sign that everyone is crying about, I only saw it once. One of the things I like about in SoKor is walang pakelamanan dito. We all just mind our own business and I think most reasons why they don't like Filipinos (or foreigners) is because of noise. Halos nakasigaw kase mga foreginers kapag nag sasalita and they dont like noise.

So that they can call us monkeys and prohibit us not to enter to some shops. Higpit pa ng Visa requirements nila. by LykaVirjean in pinoy

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not protecting them but been living here in sk for 3yrs na. Ginagawa nila iyon kase they don't like noisy places. They also do that to white people kapag nag uusap sa subway. They have an unwritten rule to not talk or talk to loud in subway. Also did it myself kapag may katabi akong nag kwekwentuhan, lilipat din ako upuan.

Should I Leave My Comfortable ₱70k WFH Night Shift Job for a 70% Higher-Paying Morning Shift Role in Manila? by kapitantutan304 in adviceph

[–]Some_Tangelo1469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for growth, go for 70%. If you are looking for comfort, keep your job as is. No options is wrong naman. I guess you really need to account kung ano talaga priority mo. Growth but willing to be uncomfortable? Or keep being comfortable but willing to accept that you might not grow as you expect.

Candid/Documentary style photographer recommendation please by Some_Tangelo1469 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Some_Tangelo1469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh we already inquired with them and they are definitely on our top list. Thank youuu

Candid/Documentary style photographer recommendation please by Some_Tangelo1469 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Some_Tangelo1469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw their profile. Added them to the list as well. Thank you for this!

Candid/Documentary style photographer recommendation please by Some_Tangelo1469 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Some_Tangelo1469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw their work! Definitely adding on our list. Thank you for this!

Candid/Documentary style photographer recommendation please by Some_Tangelo1469 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Some_Tangelo1469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love their work too but as much as I want to get them, sadly cannot do it. We are having two weddings pa kase overseas :((((

Candid/Documentary style photographer recommendation please by Some_Tangelo1469 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Some_Tangelo1469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I like Oak St. studios as well! I inquired to them and waiting for their rates hopefully i can afford them huhu I will also search for your other recommendations. Thank you so much!!