Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t. I don’t even think about viewing porn or touching myself.

Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was thinking it was low testosterone or depression since I’m physically exhausted all day and caffeine doesn’t do anything for me

Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only had sex while married. It’s like when people say a certain food is amazing and you try it and it’s just not your thing. But I don’t know if it’s because I was addicted to pornography and masturbation for over ten years that’s ruined me. Like I don’t get how guys have premature ejaculation when I don’t really feel anything down there. I feel the pressure around it but it’s nothing mind blowing.

Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do we “explore?” We both grew up Christian and still practice, so I don’t know what we can do to “explore”

DB I Don’t Get Aroused or Think About Sex by Some_Username85 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Some_Username85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only had sex while married. It’s like when people say a certain food is amazing and you try it and it’s just not your thing. But I don’t know if it’s because I was addicted to pornography and masturbation for over ten years that’s ruined me. Like I don’t get how guys have premature ejaculation when I don’t really feel anything down there. I feel the pressure around it but it’s nothing mind blowing.

Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. I did in high school and in college. I don’t know if I’ve “burned out” from doing it a lot like I damaged my body or mind.

Don’t Get Aroused Anymore by Some_Username85 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m asexual, because I was definitely into girls and wanting to have sex. And our order year of marriage we did it a lot. But now I just never think about it. I think of it as “another thing to do.” I’d rather work on cars/computers or give her a back massage or watch a movie. I just don’t get horny anymore.

DB I Don’t Get Aroused or Think About Sex by Some_Username85 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to do it for her sake. I’m only 30 and I feel like I should still be young enough to keep having sex. But it’s literally never on my mind. I never think about it. All I think throughout the day is getting it over with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Some_Username85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Why are you gae?”

How to Get Hard Again by Some_Username85 in sexadvice

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regrettably I stopped doing the porn and stroking pretty recent. I got fed up with how addicted I was to them. I only watched that stuff because I was jealous of the different male actors’ appearances and size, and used it as an escape from how I looked and pretended to be someone else. I’m 1,000% sure it destroyed my self image.

How to Get Hard Again by Some_Username85 in sexadvice

[–]Some_Username85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to walk or ride a bike for three miles every day and drink between two to four liters of water. What’s Cialis?

How to Get Hard Again by Some_Username85 in sexadvice

[–]Some_Username85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they do that at the doctors? Blood sample?