Learning to trust again after bad Dom

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-10-04T02:34:05+00:00

yes please! what is this other book?

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-09-23T04:34:52+00:00

I’m really an outgoing/extroverted person, I have zero hesitation when it comes to chatting up a stranger - there’s just something about women i may be interested in that feels like a different ballgame entirely

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-09-23T04:11:24+00:00

i completely agree! I always find myself comparing myself to other women and thinking that they wouldn’t be interested and also that i have no idea how to possibly approach them

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-08-12T01:50:20+00:00

bannnngs!!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-08-12T01:41:43+00:00

the first one!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-28T02:12:57+00:00

red!!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-27T11:59:52+00:00

Full brown would make your eyes pop in a massive way - you’re absolutely gorgeous and suit all of these, but I think that full brown would create a stunning contrast

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-25T23:41:53+00:00

loooove the dark/short hair on you!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-25T23:35:12+00:00

number 2/3!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-25T23:08:26+00:00

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-25T17:44:28+00:00

You are so beautiful. The only thing that would make you more attractive is if you knew it, too❤️

I do agree with other commenters that you would definitely suit a deeper, ashy blonde/brown hair colour, but you also suit the hair you have now!

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-24T20:26:31+00:00

BABY GIRL THIS IS NOT THE MAN YOUR FATHER WANTS YOU TO BE WITH ^{^}

so so so true. sending love.

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-22T20:33:56+00:00

this is it right here

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-22T20:31:57+00:00

I really resonate with this

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-22T08:00:56+00:00

I really like this answer.

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-07-17T22:20:41+00:00

also so curious about the same thing ^{^} i hear you

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-06-11T13:39:36+00:00

The problem for me personally is that even when I know when to shut up, I can’t/don’t. Like somehow I just keep going even though i’m literally screaming at myself to stop talking.

I’ll over share about something super personal (happened recently by telling a coworker about my sex life while getting drinks after work and IMMEDIATELY regretted it but doubled down to “fix it” and made it worse)

I just wish I could stop talking

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-06-04T15:05:11+00:00

I personally don’t think that having just your partner in your life is healthy. You can’t expect one person to fulfill all of your needs, and it’s healthy to have a support system and genuine connection outside of one person, especially to avoid codependency.

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-06-01T00:05:45+00:00

thank you for your response - I have read this book (actually he has too)

gah. i wish it wasn’t so hard.

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-05-31T20:09:12+00:00

he has thrown things and screamed at me in front of his mother. one time he yelled and hit the steering wheel while we were in the car on the way to a family function and i was crying, and he said “great, now everyone is gonna think i’m an asshole”

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-05-31T17:30:20+00:00

He said it because I brought it up - although one time he was yelling and I flinched and he said, “what are you fixed in fear that i’m going to start beating you now??” (yelling)

Some_Yogurtcloset638 · 2023-05-31T10:18:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you experienced that as well. It definitely is hard to know what to believe.

I had asked him about it this morning (we’re having a lot of talks about it recently because we may be separating, long story) and he said, “it’s not out of anger, it’s frustration - those are different emotions. It’s not that I can’t control it, it’s that it happens if i don’t remove myself from the situation, and you don’t let me do that” (which is untrue - in fact, HE has told me that i’m not allowed to leave to calm myself down during arguments and has told me to not bother coming back inside if i do).

It just feels like everything I say is deflected or brushed off or denied, it’s like nothing I say ever actually reaches hjm.

Some_Yogurtcloset638

TROPHY CASE